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06-24-2015, 07:58 AM | #1 | |||
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You sound like a very compassionate, intelligent and forgiving person. Like Eva, I lost an only son to suicide, gun in mouth many years ago. I believe we suffer differently depending on whether you are a child who has lost a parent to suicide or are a parent who loses a child that way. I understand the difference and am watching and listening carefully to this surviving now man who believes that his father, my wonderful son, was a selfish coward. Hugs for the room.
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06-24-2015, 07:34 PM | #2 | ||
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I can only imagine the pain of losing a child; then to have your grandson feel as he does. I hope for both of you; he will grow in understanding and forgiveness. Some years ago, one of my daughters who suffered from cocaine addiction; was in a downward spiral. She had a friend who had a gun. My daughter spoke of wanting to put the gun in her mouth and end it. Emotional pain can be just as devastating as physical pain. As a mother; all I could do was offer her support and did a lot of praying. My daughter has been drug free for many years; but the mood swings are always present. For today; she is doing well. Gerry |
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09-10-2015, 09:51 PM | #3 | |||
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And here's something to consider. A child living with a parent who is depressed and in extreme pain and has almost no energy to give might be affected negatively by that. Just as much as losing that parent. Children need a lot of nurturing. |
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06-28-2015, 02:14 PM | #4 | |||
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06-30-2015, 03:29 PM | #5 | |||
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Andy I do understand where you are coming from and bumped of the other thread because it is about choices. Our son Michael was 31 years old and healthy when he impulsively put that gun in his mouth. Healthy physically but obviously depressed. I'm glad you are here talking....we are listening. Hugs for the room.
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06-30-2015, 04:28 PM | #6 | |||
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Thank you. I am truly sorry for your loss. Its a blessing & a curse that we can not aquire firearms in England...
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10-03-2015, 02:49 PM | #7 | |||
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It's dangerous to attempt suicide when you are unsure of your methods. And while I never advise anyone on this choice I do honor their right to choose and hold no ill feelings about it. They are logically in a better position to evaluate their situation then I could ever be. |
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