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Old 07-13-2016, 10:58 AM   #11
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Eva you did the right thing in rushing to the hospital. We should always trust our instincts and you did just that ! I call that mama cat stuff . And the guilt that we feel regarding our children's activities also goes with the territory .

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers . 💕
Just like you said
It was in my gut
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Old 07-20-2016, 08:30 AM   #12
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How are you and your daughter doing, dear Eva?

I've been thinking of you both…
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Old 07-20-2016, 10:46 AM   #13
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How are you and your daughter doing, dear Eva?

I've been thinking of you both…
dear friend
it is very difficult to mention
after the attempt
and i at her side
was to try detox again
however she has not followed through
doing all she can to allow the help to wash over her
i had to block her
never doing that in my life
she became very demanding
telling me how she will manage

there is no managing
period
getting that phone call i dread
and then ordering me around
i just couldn't anymore

i think you understand
be well
thank you for your concern
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Old 07-22-2016, 09:26 AM   #14
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It sounds like she is being manipulative. That can obviously be be a common feature in addicts, but can also be a common feature in some mental health disorders. Does she have a psych diagnosis?

Did she ever spend time in a psych ward?
I understood that she's in detox… sometimes they mix those patients in together. That's what they do in the hospital I go to because addicts tend to have a lot of mental health problems, too

I'm sorry that you had to take a step back because she became overbearing, but you did a difficult, but wonderful thing by being there for her when she needed you. Maybe given a little time she'll renew her appreciation for you and you can resume a healthier relationship together
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Old 07-22-2016, 05:40 PM   #15
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It sounds like she is being manipulative. That can obviously be be a common feature in addicts, but can also be a common feature in some mental health disorders. Does she have a psych diagnosis?

Did she ever spend time in a psych ward?
I understood that she's in detox… sometimes they mix those patients in together. That's what they do in the hospital I go to because addicts tend to have a lot of mental health problems, too

I'm sorry that you had to take a step back because she became overbearing, but you did a difficult, but wonderful thing by being there for her when she needed you. Maybe given a little time she'll renew her appreciation for you and you can resume a healthier relationship together
Yes this is my hope
And it force her to do the motherly duties
Like getting her registered for school
Must get her medical check up per school
Uniforms
You get the picture
I will be getting her ready fed
With her lunch box and ready to roll
She must step up

She has had every kind of help for mental help then I can count anymore
It is now a matter of
Just do
Before all the time is gone
And I having to raise another
You I am sure get the picture

Her excuses are old

Time for action
Though very scary
Getting another call in the early morning
Thanks for the concern and suggestions
Will try it all and revisit if must
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Old 07-23-2016, 04:48 AM   #16
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I hope she takes advantage of the help that is offered to her from a psych and addiction perspective, and is able to start turning her life around
You will sleep better for it

But sometimes even though the worst has already happened, it can take something a little extra (good or bad), before we can really realize that change is necessary, and are lives are worth the effort

I know you will take care of the little one. Don't forget to take care of yourself.


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Old 07-23-2016, 05:24 AM   #17
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I hope she takes advantage of the help that is offered to her from a psych and addiction perspective, and is able to start turning her life around
You will sleep better for it

But sometimes even though the worst has already happened, it can take something a little extra (good or bad), before we can really realize that change is necessary, and are lives are worth the effort

I know you will take care of the little one. Don't forget to take care of yourself.


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Dear Kay

As for myself
I'll will do the best I can
Eva at five understanding
Long and short vowels
I taught her in song
Most of my teaching is done in song
And she loves itand gets it
Addition and subtraction is what we are on now
So bright
So loving
One just can't help but cry
When watching her and then thinking of
My child cuts deep
She knows I support her she just needs to want it

Now how badly
At what cost
I worry
And wonder
And pray
She get better sooner than later

My eldest just got her first batch of her published work
She is a true authentic poet
She has made her milestone
And accomplished her dream
To be an author of her work
Worthy she is
Called and shared it with me
My fear that drinking may get the better of her one day

She has accomplished much in her 35 years of life
With her epilepsy
Having part if the occipital lobe taken and become blind
in the hope to irradiate her seizures
Failed
But kept moving forward
Still have my stupid worries

The are adults
But only I know what
Loosing your privilege to drink in a social manner
Eventually that's out the window most times
This I know for certain
My fears
Mine
Your concerns noted
And will always be where they can't see me
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Old 07-23-2016, 09:52 AM   #18
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Got word she made the appointment
for her physical
A start
And she will be forced to do more
Only hope left
One moment at a time
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What a bright little one at five to be working on math! You have a wonderful teaching method that is obviously working well.

Congratulations to your daughter for getting published! You must be so proud!

"Still have my stupid worries."
No matter how old your children get, they will always be your babies, and you will always worry

I'm so happy your daughter made an appointment for a physical. I hope someone/something will reach her, she will stay safe, and continue to take additional steps towards getting healthy soon
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