Gavin doesn't do any television shows these days, and hasn't in recent years, however he is planning to appear on the Oprah Winfrey Show, Tuesday, January 29th. Oprah is doing a show on the ten-year anniversary of the publication of The Gift of Fear, and they'll be talking about intuition, safety, and concepts from the book. The show is being done live Tuesday morning in Chicago, and it'll air at different times around the country.

If you'd like to see a preview, click on Watch Preview¯ under Opraha's photo on this link:

http://www2.oprah.com/tows/pastshows...?promocode=H51

"When a man says no, it's the end of the conversation. When a woman says no, it's the beginning of a negotiation." Gavin de Becker....*grin How well he understands.

Thanks Ms. Alffe. Wish I could have watched it.

I tried watching... had to change the channel but understood the point he was making.

I found the show to be a great reinforcement of what I have learned in my life.

Looking back at most uncomfortable/dangerous/heart breaking relationships , I can pinpoint the early "triggers" - the deep down feeling that this "isn't right" - and wonder at how I could have ignored it.

Hard lessons learned.

I listen more to my gut now, than anything... my brain is next... and after that, my heart.

Thanks, Alffe, for bringing me to watch this show