I like the idea Nik about asking her if she wanted a special garden too or to add to yours, think its a wonderful idea, and also seeing if she wants to get out and go somewhere is good too, combine both,

I guess male stripper would be out of the question? Just kidding

I like combo number 5 also

Even when I know you are upset, you still try to make me smile....thank you

Well what I did was throw the plans out the window. I am a nut that way.
I chew on something only so long, then I need to face it and decide what to do. So, I called mom. It was hard, and I just knew no matter what I did I was going to make her cry But, that is what family and friends are for, to help you through the hard times. It just hurts me, to see those I love hurting.

So, she was extremely relieved for my offer, she didn‘t want to be alone after all. Of all the kids, we are the closest. She asked if it could just be me and Lynn and I assured her it most certainly could! I am not yet sure what she wants to do, but I will follow her lead and just try to be there for her. Thank you all for your help, and wish me luck for Sunday!

(((Sweet Nik))) Excellent. Very excellent. Yes, any way you looked at it, you knew it would bring tears. I think there would have been even more tears is you had not made a move for fear of upsetting her. It's always good to know that your loved ones are thinking of you. You done good girlfriend.

Now, lol, if I were your mother, I would have added that I wanted to spend the night with you so I wouldn't be alone. (My son-in-law at this point would remind me that I am not to live within a 10-mile radius of them ever.)