OK, so like I messed up the last post so here I am starting again...

now I'd forgotten what I was trying to say..

I think I was trying to say that in Lao Tszu's Daoism, he taught to go with the flow...and let it flow freely, it is only when the flows become freely that we are able to see better...

I think in my case, it means that whenever I get angry at something, I mean, I can really get angry at little things, just ask the wife...LOL

like the other day, I went to do some gardening and there were a bunch of ants, now ants here are pain in the (_!_)'s and they like to attack you for NO reason...so I got really mad at them and went to get ant killer and came back out and right before I poured the poison, I saw that they were right next to the Dragon Plant...and I had to stop myself...then I saw a dragonfly on top of the bamboo stick and I thought to myself, if I pour this poision, that poor dragonfly might get killed somehow by it, by some sorta association...

so I stopped...


anyways....I usually just go sit in the corner...and yes, knowing I have the right to be angry but that anger is to me, myself only...and that after the anger subsides, to flow back and see where that takes me, it usually makes me realize that my anger may not be what it seems at first...

not sure if this made any sense...

not even sure if you are into Qinese DoFuism....

((((HUGS)))) dear friend...

Thanks everyone! My anger has dissolved, somewhat...

... mostly its disappointment.



:sing: Addy

talking about the elephant in the room....

and she sighs...

wow... unbelievable..

I'm outa here....

censorship abounds

:hug: Come back dear lady....you are soooooooo needed. :grouphug:

Chemar is the best! Trust me. :hug:

echoing that sentiment....and...Add a lot...keep ADDYing... :D

Chemar... and Curious...

I apologize.

:hug:

:sing: Addy

Wow...a public apology...those are hardest to come by and they mean the most. (((Addy)))