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10-14-2008, 06:04 AM | #1 | |||
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It takes energy to focus on mistakes, energy that we need for other tasks. It is self-defeating to think only of what we could have or should have done. We write our own endings to these thoughts and often cast ourselves as the villain or the victim.
The fact is that there would be mistakes in our lives with or without the suicide. It is also true that we all constantly do things that can be classified as successes. Loving, caring acts also need to be recalled and celebrated. Part of "living" life after a sucide loss involves stepping back from listing our mistakes. We don't get reverse gear but we are allowed to go forward. we can survive our mistakes; we can survive the loss. ***** The Dividing Line by Jeanne Moren Adams
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10-14-2008, 06:24 AM | #2 | |||
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One of my favorite places to hang out...http://hospice.bedlamfarm.com/
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10-14-2008, 08:19 AM | #3 | |||
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great link..thankyou for sharing it
I think it might soon be a fav place of mine to visit too. |
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10-14-2008, 12:18 PM | #4 | |||
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Awesome site!!!! Do you hang out there physically as well?
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10-14-2008, 05:00 PM | #5 | |||
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thank you...
I was going to say I want to let it all hang out but this is a rated PG forum....
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10-14-2008, 05:28 PM | #6 | |||
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We all see you out there on that limb dear man...we'll catch you if you let go.
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10-14-2008, 05:29 PM | #7 | |||
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not yet Mistiis...but maybe one day.
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10-14-2008, 05:32 PM | #8 | |||
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'Thanks' Button Team Community Member T.K.S.
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it's good to know that I will be caught... and...I will be here to catch you and anybody else that needs catching also... I have been given so much...I cannot give back enough...
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10-14-2008, 05:36 PM | #9 | |||
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Mistiis is right....Love is always the answer.
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10-14-2008, 06:26 PM | #10 | |||
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My avatar pic is my beautiful niece Ashley! . Rest in Peace 3/8/90 ~~ 4/2/12
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