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11-14-2008, 02:54 PM | #11 | |||
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11-14-2008, 03:03 PM | #12 | |||
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Alffe Thank you. I don't want to become a drag to the group. My situation occurs,then lets up,then just when people are thinking they have helped me,I seem to go down again. Then I go up. My best time was in the Nineteen Nineties. Recently I've been on the down side for a long time. The last two years have been the down again period. BF
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11-14-2008, 03:16 PM | #13 | |||
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11-14-2008, 03:31 PM | #14 | |||
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((BF)) Firstly I need a new name to call you, as to me your name makes me kind of sad. You are NOT broken, you just have issues you are dealing with. It takes great courage to admit that to oneself and others. So until you give me a better name to call you, I think I will call your CouragousFriend
Secondly, we are all here because we are in pain. We are all here to break the silence and stigma associated with depression and suicide.. so no my friend, you are NOT saying too much. Keep talking, share anything and everything you want to!! One thing I love about this forum is the open support and knowing no matter what I say, I am safe and I will not be judge. I may not understand all that you are going through, but I do not judge you. I only wish to listen and offer help if I can. Everyone here is the same, we wont turn our back on you. If I may ask, how long has it been since you have seen a therapist? I know you were going, and are going again next wed. I keep holding out hope that this could be a turning point for you. I am also wondering if there is anything in your state that could help you push along the paperwork to get you the help you need. Do you have a social worker? I hope I do not offend you, but in order to try to understand the rift in your family I need to ask a question. Has your father ever told you, personally, not through other family members, that he doesn't wish to see you? You mention that you have no idea why he doesn't want to talk, does this mean you have never asked him right out? I only ask because I have found the only way to handle any problem, including family rifts and misunderstandings is to tackle them head on. If someone in my family didn't want to see me, I would move Heaven and Earth to find out why. Perhaps if you ask him straight out, you will at least have a true answer? I continue to hold in my prayers. Keep posting, and let us know how your appointment goes Nikki
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11-14-2008, 04:10 PM | #15 | |||
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Big germ phobic here, BF!! Yes, I do understand. [[[[BF]]]]]
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Alffe (11-16-2008), Brokenfriend (11-15-2008) |
11-14-2008, 05:40 PM | #16 | |||
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BF.....Talk away my friend.....i'm going no where.,..............
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Alffe (11-16-2008), Brokenfriend (11-15-2008) |
11-15-2008, 03:23 AM | #17 | |||
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This hurts me that he doesn't want to see me. I may not see him for the rest of his life. He's almost 89,and my sister say's he's frail. This is a mystery to me,and I don't understand his reaction. He does have a explosive temper if he lets it out. He had a stroke about eight years ago,but I've seen him since then. The only thing that I can think that has caused this,is my sisters conversations with him about me. I definitely realize that my sister doesn't like me,but my dad use to like me. He told me that he knows that I have many problems,deep problems,and gave me a few golf balls,and a putter,and then left. That was after his stroke,about four years ago. That's all that I know. BF |
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11-15-2008, 03:37 AM | #18 | |||
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Yes. They are all around. I don't like dust. I have these different kinds of air purifiers in all of my rooms. I have allergy attacks,sometimes with my anxiety attacks. Sometimes I cannot tell which one it is. BF
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11-15-2008, 03:48 AM | #19 | |||
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BF, I'm so sorry your having such a bad time at this time. You will be included in the Olhipie's prayers. You try to get the rest that is so important when life is so stressed...look at me talking about getting rest and its almost 2am. My Honey just offered me a snuggle if I came to bed...guess I can't pass that one up!!
Again...our thoughts and prayers are going out for you!!
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Brokenfriend (11-15-2008), mistiis (11-15-2008) |
11-15-2008, 03:49 AM | #20 | |||
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Thank you David. With my financial situation,I hope that I can keep my Computer. I don't even know if I'll have cable,or satellite TV in the near future either. I hope to,but I don't know. One of the people with the government that I talked to on the telephone today said they don't know if I'll be able to have cable,or Satellite TV. My SSD hearing is in February. My sister said why don't you sell some of your hobby equipment. I wonder am I going to loose everything? I don't know. BF
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