and for reyn,



hope you know i haven't forgotten about you! and am always worrying/thinking of you!

And Alffe, before I sign off to lunch, I thought I would comment on your last post about your group meeting. Therapy, support groups, AA/NA meetings always need to be shopped around. It is very important to find a counselor/therapist/group that fits with you and that works with your own personal style of grieving or dealing with problems. The way I see it, whoever is supporting you is like a friend, and not all people are going to be right for you as friends. I've got first hand experience with having lots of terrible friends! So it goes the same way with therapy and support groups, if they aren't right for you, dont give up but keep trying until you find one that is.

I'll get off my soapbox now.

You are so right Wish...hsiw..*grin. I am hoping to start my own group...it's a long story. LOLOL And I'm sorry your mood is stressed.