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Things are way out of control. I am losing it, I don't know what to do. I see my pdoc tomorrow but he won't do anything he never can because have been on so many meds. I think the meds won't help anyways. I am just too screwed up, and meds don't help things like PTSD and some other things i have.
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![]() Melody Beattie wrote a book called A Reason to Live after the death of her 12 year old son, not from suicide but this loss caused her such depression that she reached out to other people in a cry for help...she asked, "how would you respond to a friend who was thinking of taking his or her own life." It's an excellent book with simple suggestions of things we can hold onto while waiting to feel better. John Bradshaw, author of Homecoming writes, "Suicide is a hasty choice. Use your imagination, the faculty of your soul, to find another choice. (((Jen29))) It's hard work but you can do it...you can do it if you try. (reminds me of a song.) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TkQIpqej568&feature=fvw
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(((Jen))), sent you another note!
![]() You can find your way if you "stick with it!" ![]() Decide to not give up, no matter your feelings. Feel your feelings, Jen. Yet, don't be deceived! ![]() Do not allow your negative feelings to dictate your actions. There are lots of doctors, lots of meds, lots of approaches (many without meds or in addition to meds). There are so many potential "answers" for you! There are infinite possibilities, (((Dear Jen))). Don't let your fear take over, Jen. Decide not to put your fear or your pain in the driver's seat. Refuse to let them drive!!! (((Alffe))) has suggested some great books! ![]() Many others here are reaching out to you (((Jen))). Let us help you to get through this. ![]() It can be a tough fight, Jen. Depression, PTSD, abuse, anxiety, panic, regrets, losses, physical ailments, fear... you name it, Jen... they are all tough! ![]() Life is tough! Life is sometimes simply gut-wrenching, Jen. It is full of pain and uncertainty, yet... It is also full of love, joy and meaning! ![]() YOU are also tough! You are! You may not feel as though you are tough, but you are! There are answers for you. You may not know what they are yet, but there are answers... for you. Let us walk beside you while you find them? ![]() "Soften," Jen..."open up" and feel the love so many are offering to you! The walls... they keep the "yucky feelings" in. ![]() Let the love shine through!!! Let the love shine through!!! Let the love shine through!!! ![]() Many are offering you lots of love! ![]() ![]() I hope you can feel the warmth of that love. ![]() Stay safe (((Jen))). Stay safe. Stay safe. What types of thing do help you? |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Addy (07-29-2009), barbo (07-29-2009), Brokenfriend (07-29-2009), FeelinGoofy (07-29-2009), Jen29 (07-29-2009) |
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I know that you are tired,but the lord will renew your strength. I've been through several life shaking events,but I'm still here. Sometimes things slowly turn around,but those mountains move. I don't know how God does it but these tremendous difficulties change.
Read Psalm 23,and remember Job in the Bible,and all of the things that happened to him. Even his friends discouraged him. In Isaiah 41:10 He says Fear thou not; for I am with thee:be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee;yea,I will help thee;yea,I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. (King James Version) Key words are Strengthen help uphold You Cast not away therefore your confidence which hath great recompence of reward. Heb.10:35 (King James Version) Hang on to these words,don't let go. I've fought with myself to hang on to these truths when I've gone through my battles,and I still hold on to these words. In daily battles,I've read these truths,and no one can take His truths away. These are some of the things that help me,but in a dark horrible pit of depression,I still reach out,and I still have these Bible verses,and things have straightened out in my life before at many times in my life. Please keep holding on. You will get through it. Circumstances have a way of working out. If we don't heal the way we thought,we can endure through His words of Grace directly to you from the Bible,and gives us some peace of mind. Hang on Jen. Angels are with you,and I. Don't give up. BF ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Addy (07-29-2009), barbo (07-29-2009), DejaVu (07-29-2009), FeelinGoofy (07-29-2009), Jen29 (07-29-2009) |
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(((Jen))) Maybe you could make a list of things that are going right for you. You found this forum and made so many wonderful new friends.
![]() ![]() Most important of all, I think, is to keep talking about how you are feeling. We are all here to listen and care. ![]() ![]() ![]()
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