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08-24-2009, 10:09 PM | #11 | |||
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I wish wishes could change things. I wish he didn't have to suffer through so much at his young age. I wish you didn't have to suffer so much pain. I wish our society was set up differently, with a lot more volunteer work available and run like a well-oiled machine. I wish there was someone who could just sit quietly in your room with you and help you with simple things.
On a practical note-I don't know what grade your nephew is in, but if he has trouble keeping up with his school work, I want to be sure you know about 504 plans. They work sort of like IEP's (Individualized Education Plans for special needs kids) and can be used when a child has normal IQ, but due to life events, needs accomodations; such as a plan where he can take a break if needed-maybe someone taking notes for him-extra time for work and tests before counted as late, etc.
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08-25-2009, 11:15 AM | #12 | ||
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Nik-key, I have been reading your posts for many months, but after reading your post to the thread about "Hope" and the ones on this thread, I just feel such a need to respond. But I don't know what to say.
I've written a number of responses to other posts by you and others, but I could not hit the "submit" button -- mainly because I'm the other type of survivor than your type and didn't want to cause problems on the forum. Saturday or Sunday, after reading the post/thread where you, GmaSue, BJ, David, who moi and others were discussing suicide/selfishness/rationality, I realized what a fair person you are. If I can find where I may have saved what I was trying to write about, I will try to post them. I wish that I could help you in some way. You find a way to love and to be good even in the midst of such suffering, both emotional and physical. You've touched my life. GmaSue, you're a good friend here! Scrabble, it's wonderful to read your posts. I've missed you, and I've appreciated that you've never forgotten me. Not a special day goes by that something doesn't arrive in my mailbox. Forgive me for my silence? moi, what can I say? I love you. |
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08-26-2009, 08:59 AM | #13 | |||
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Another day off that is really not a day off. The baby has a drs appointment, Mom has an appointment and the dogs have an appointment.
The incubator ( I have trouble calling her a Mom ) finally called and is taking the baby overnight Friday. This is so stressful for me. I hate to let her take her. But I am trying to do what is right. The other Grandmom will be there so I am not as worried as I would be if the "Mom" were going to be alone with her. I mentioned to "Mom" that she (her baby) has a dr appointment today. She never even asked "what for?" Is everything ok? This so called Mom has not called in almost 3 weeks just to check on her own child! It is beyond frustrating! I am really tryimg to give ner the benefit of the doubt, but she makes it soooo difficult. well enough of that.......Enjoy your day everyone! Dottie
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08-27-2009, 10:09 AM | #14 | |||
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((Reyn)) Such beautiful words, I was very moved I think even those who are here because we lost a loved one to suicide, are also "the other kind of survivor".
Please do hit the summit button, we all lose out when you don't. We are all survivors here. I think I can safely speak for everyone when I say we WANT to know what you are feeling, how you are doing, and the thoughts you are thinking. I know I do And you do help me ((Reyn)) just by being here. ((sue)) thank you for everything ((Dottie)) I can understand your resentments. I am glad that little angel has you to protect her
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