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It's not dead, it's just sleeping

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Originally Posted by Snoopy (Post 680689)

mrkmyword,

If you are reading, you will notice many of the responses offer apologies.

I, personally, do not feel we owe apologies - no one here has done anything wrong. All of us have MS, we also have families, social obligations, work, volunteer and many other things in our lives...good and bad.

NeuroTalk is a very welcoming community and always has been.

If you would like to be part of this community then please, participate. If you don't then I wish you all the best where ever your MS and life takes you.

Snoopy your first post got a snort out of me as well HEY JUST LIKE DEEJ.

I wasn't asking for apologizes!
That wasn't the point. I was expressing my feelings of what it felt like and some patterns I had noticed.
I truly hope this thread won't turn into a heated debate.

I'll admit to the following I am MS sensitive, fatigued and I will try to remember that everyone has their own package of problems and life

Dejibo

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Sometimes I am soooo lonely! I come here hoping for attention, affection, and folks that get what I am going thru, and then I find...they are busy! my post goes hours, sometimes days with either no response, or just clicks on thanks. Many times I respond to a thread,and...it dies! I think "are you kidding?!" I pop up and everyone else goes home? then I think and say ...ok, it must just be how I am reacting to it. its VERY hard to convey emotion and intent thru a post on a message board.

Thanks for taking the time to respond so many times and you expressed it so well- how everyone gets lost and feels at time AND all the crap we deal with
Thanks :hug:

and Karousel

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There are many times I start a thread looking for advice or a response. Those that have something to contribute will respond. I may not get a lot of responses but just knowing others are at least reading it helps. There are also times when I respond to a thread and no one else responds after I do then I feel like a thread killer.

That helped me 'get it' and try and accept the dynamics :hug:

Kicker - I was really touched to know you read my post..well after my venting :D post I got a nice compliment from you:hug:

I could tell some of you were upset or hurt by my words.
Let me explain that I was making a point about inclusion.

And guys? there are a few people who feel the same as me - I just have a bigger mouth.http://www.en.kolobok.us/smiles/standart/derisive.gif
Some folks may not have MS - but by visiting this site everyone should feel inclusive -

Let's be honest my rambling, venting, MS heat wave meltdown got 17!!!!! responses
http://www.en.kolobok.us/smiles/light_skin/diablo.gifme thinks disturbing the s**t http://www.en.kolobok.us/smiles/arti...nie_witchy.gifonce in awhile wakes everyone up.

Like Snoopy and Kicker did I'd like to end on a lighter note - thanks for responding with understanding and...GROUP HUG!
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Originally Posted by kicker (Post 680705)

I like Dej- she snorts.

*pushing my way in* Well, I squeak. :p

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Originally Posted by kicker (Post 680725)

LOOK!!! It was me. I killed the thread.

Kicker, just keep posting and someone will take pity on you and post...oh, I guess I just did :p

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Originally Posted by mrkmyword (Post 680734)

I'll admit to the following I am MS sensitive, fatigued and I will try to remember that everyone has their own package of problems and life

We all are...at times. We all try and remember that at any given time a member may post something that comes off the wrong way. Those are the times it's best to remember there is pain, fatigue, medication, disabilities ect. that come with this disease and can affect how we respond...or don't.

I don't see this topic becoming a heated debate. I understand others may feel like you do...I felt the same way once.

Did you know - you can post anywhere on Neurotalk. As I said we are a very welcoming community ;)

Hey MRK,

I'm really pretty clicky personally but nobody wants to associate with me so I'm often left to my own little corner. :lookaround:

But seriously, the folks here are great, and we all mean well, but like you, we're all usually exhausted just from turning on the computer and hoisting our legs up on the table.

I don't respond a lot just because I'm tired a lot. I have read a few of your posts and I thought you were interesting. Since nobody else wants to join my click, will you sign up please? I'll even waive the annual activation fee. :D (Maybe that's why nobody else has been interested?) :Ponder:

I'm not talking to Wiz. She's trying to beat me in Trivia:eek:!

Everyone snort now and let me kill this thread.

I am not!! I hardly ever win! If I win once a month it's a miracle! I'm slower than all of you guys!! <going back to my dark little corner to pout...> :ranting:

This is the LEAST clique group I've come accross. Try the UK one if you want to be ignored !!!!!!!

As for me, well i'm jonnie no mates in the corner, queen of thread killing and replier of few these last few months. Nobody told ME there was a cool table with the cool kids.

OP is bordering on being mean. There's no NEED to stir the pot or shake up the group. We're here of our own free will and feel no obligation to reply to anyone in particular.

If i think I can contribute or help a poster, i will. otherwise I'll just read and leave like the floozie i am. My choice.

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Originally Posted by Debbie D (Post 680955)

What's OP?

Original Poster