Sorry, I guess I do not quite understand. Just one week ago you stated that he who shall not be named did not even know how to use the computer. Do you now know that he has been searching for you on line?

it made me sorta wonder as well. How does he know how to even search for you? are you able to erase your browser history when you are done? or does he just google your normal nickname? and btw, who cares what he sees? Tell him its none of his beeswax and to mind his own hive. You are a grown woman and come come and go and do as you please, no? Or has he not figured out that you are outta there yet?

If I read this right, I think you nailed it with your final question Dejibo. Sounds like maybe she got good advice to not use her normal name and not to talk publicly about her plans in places he might find them.

He doesn't know any of my plans. I have to keep it that way because he is volatile and I don't know what he may do. Someone may tell him to look for me online and he does know that I am on the NT site.

Dej, if he behaved like a normal guy I wouldn't be outta here :). I can't do and say what I please. He will try to use it against me in any way he can.

When I first saw this thread, I thought it was going to be political..:D

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I'm too tired for politics now, Sally :D. My world has 'shrunk'. :).

It's funny that this thread came up. I just heard a radio commercial for a law firm that only handles men in divorce. It talks about how they can investigate through social networking. It is timely that you decided to change things.

Also, you might want to consider having a moderator delete any previous threads regarding "he who shall not be named". Even if he isn't savvy enough to search, he can find someone who is.

I want to let you know that I found a safe, secure forum to post about this stuff :). Women in the same circumstance.

It isn't the same though without you guys :(. Love ya all! :hug:

Btw, I'm not leaving NT :). The other forum is just a place to talk about stuff I can't share here. :hug:

You can PM me anytime you feel like venting, Jodygirl..:hug: