[Jodylee]

I'm really mad that I can't talk about what is happening in my life because of HIM. This is he one place I truly feel safe and he has taken it away. Unless I learn to speak in code!

It's hard enough for some of us to read and understand posts anyway, a code would just make it crazy.

Just a vent about one more thing he has ruined for me. I'm doing the pity party dance .

[Blessings2You]

Don't we have private groups?

[Koala77]

Originally Posted by Blessings2You

Don't we have private groups?

Yes we do, and they can be made private, invite only where only those in the group can read the posts. One draw back is that with invite only, you have to invite every single member you want to see your posts but it might be a starting place.

[kicker]

Am I the only one who doesn't have a clue?

[kicker]

Only code I know (pig Latin) Hat-Way?

[Jodylee]

I'm trying to think of a way to say this without giving my identity away .

The man that I share my life with is causing me much pain and stress. I'm trying to escape it. I'm upset because I used to feel safe coming here to talk about things in my life that were upsetting.

I have to hide my identity because he may search for my posts to see if I am talking about our problems and my dilemma. Does that help?

I would like to start a group . How do I do that? If you can help with this, pm me. Thanks in advance!

[kicker]

NOW I get it.

[Jomar]

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/fa..._social_groups

[Can I create my own social group?

As a registered member, you can create your own social group (providing the administrator allows this). Go to the groups page and click 'Create A New Group'. Complete the title and description for your group then select the type. There are three types of groups:

* Public - open to everyone. There is no restriction on who can join or who can post messages to it
* Invite Only - require an invitation to be sent to join them. Invitations can only be sent by the group creator or forum moderators and administrators. Invitations are sent by clicking 'Pending & Invited Members' at the bottom of the page for that individual group
* Moderated - open to everyone to join but messages need to be moderated before they will appear. They are moderated by the group creator and the site moderators and administrators]

[Jomar]

I just tested the Private social group, and it seems to be still readable by other members.

PMs may be the most secure way to share some topics.

[soxmom]

s my friend. it sucks that this has to be so hard.