[hjmom]

I've mentioned this before, my 14 yo son is heading out on an international 3 week trip to Fiji, Australia and New Zealand next Tuesday. Mom is freaking out that it is this close now. I know he's independent and responsible, but gosh that's a long way to have my baby half way across the world. I met a People to People group in the airport, told him about it and he wanted to apply. He did, did his recommendation letters, interviewed and got accepted. So all that said I feel like I was the one that led him down that path, even though I had to do NO convincing once we went to the inital presentation and he saw the details of the trip. He was hooked then.

I'm going to have to be strong taking him to the airport, I want him to have fun and not worry that Mom is upset, so it's going to be hard to not cry!! Please say a little prayer for me that I can handle this. This will be his first trip out of the country at all.

Just have to believe that God has a plan for him and no matter where he is or how much I worry, I'm not going to change that. I know it will be a great life experience for him, but getting through those three weeks are going to be agony for me. People to People seems to do a great job with organization and taking care of the kids, so say a little prayer for them that all will be well and he returns safely on July 12th.

Thanks for listening to me rant. I'm sure I'll have use some of the xanax I have for the next three weeks and will be glued to the tv for any news from that region.

[Koala77]

Kathy your son is coming to a very safe part of the world. Australia and NZ don't see the political unrest that other countries do, and major crime is minimal...... probably much less than what he's been used to seeing on TV or reading about in his own home state.

I'm unable to comment on the political climate in Fiji at the moment, because I simply don't know, but because there's been nothing on our National TV news reports I have to assume that all is well.

Australia is very close to Fiji and a popular holiday destination for many thousands of Ozzies each year. If I hear about any problems on the horizon I can let you know if you wish.

I know that every mother worries when their children head to unknown countries, but rest assured he should be safe in this part of the world. Enjoy his postcards home, and don't forget to let us know about the fun he's having.

[hjmom]

That would be great for any information Koala!! Are you in Australia?? He will do a home stay with a family in New Zealand for two days. Should be a wonderful experience for him, but a stressful time for me. I think in Australia, he's be in Sydney most of the time, but they do venture out of the city for some day trips to other areas. I know we have to 'give them their wings' and allow them to grow up at some time though... It's hard though. Will keep you posted.

Originally Posted by Koala77

Kathy your son is coming to a very safe part of the world. Australia and NZ don't see the political unrest that other countries do, and major crime is minimal...... probably much less than what he's been used to seeing on TV or reading about in his own home state.

I'm unable to comment on the political climate in Fiji at the moment, because I simply don't know, but because there's been nothing on our National TV news reports I have to assume that all is well.

Australia is very close to Fiji and a popular holiday destination for many thousands of Ozzies each year. If I hear about any problems on the horizon I can let you know if you wish.

I know that every mother worries when their children head to unknown countries, but rest assured he should be safe in this part of the world. Enjoy his postcards home, and don't forget to let us know about the fun he's having.

[Koala77]

Originally Posted by hjmom

That would be great for any information Koala!! Are you in Australia??

Yep! I'm an Ozzie. DH and I lived in a beautiful seaside place just north of Sydney (Port MacQuarie) until just before Christmas, and then we moved (home) to Tasmania. If you're looking at a map of Australia then Tasmania is that little heart shaped island at the bottom of the main island. (see my Breast Cancer Support picture in my signature!) It's very beautiful here and there's so much to see.

Had he wanted to come to Tassie (as it's called) DH and I would have been more than happy to put him up for a few days so he could explore our island, but alas you've probably left it a bit late.

I'll PM you any changes in Fijian political climate if that's what you want, but you have no need for any concerns while he's in Australia or New Zealand.

[Friend2U]

I can't relate to a child leaving the country...but I can relate to being a mom who worries...EVERY TIME THEY JUST DRIVE TO A FRIEND'S HOUSE... It's in our blood!!!

However, I do believe God has a plan, and had it not been you making the first contact in the airport, it would have been another way. So rest easy. Just keep praying. (I know God hears us the first time and doesn't forget, but it makes US feel a whole lot better to give him reminders!) I'm sure he doesn't mind.

Your son is so fortunate to have such great, supportive parents. It is the hardest things to let them spread their wings. I am remembering you in my thoughts and prayers. I wish the best for your son and your family.

I am a fellow MSer and I hope you are not having too many struggles with this. I know it changes our "mom" dynamics. I will be remembering you Tuesday!

[Snoopy]

Kathy, he will be okay.

No matter how independent and responsible our child are we will still worry, that's part of being a parent as is guilt

Cry all you want but I know you'll be able to see him off at the airport and not shed a tear (until you get back to your car). Make sure you have tissue in your purse or pocket because you will probably need it on the way home (I did).

[AfterMyNap]

Kathy, I'm not a mom so my thoughts are for your lad. Think of yourself at that age and about how willing and able you were to try new things and seek adventures.

Above all, trust your investment in raising him, it's time to enjoy the dividends.

[GladysD]

I hope he has a wonderful time, comes home with plenty of stories....and all your worries are behind you!!! Blessings to your family during this exciting time

[Twinkletoes]

hjmom, that sounds like such a wonderful opportunity for your son!

You have been given a lot of good advice by some very good people. Please try not to worry. We'll keep you both in our prayers!

[Victor H]

Kathy,

Realize that every night when you look at the moon, he sees the same moon. And, the dirt that you walk on is the same dirt that he is walking on,..., it is just that he is a little farther down the block from you.

He will be fine and have great stories to tell when he gets back.