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SandyC 07-18-2008 08:43 AM

Sorry guys but you'll have to drag Jim and I down there with you to kick some Tanya butt. And to think I sent Tanya a MS Walk shirt some 18 years ago. Let's make her put it on over her bathing suit and lay her out in the yard! :p

Blessings2You 07-18-2008 08:52 AM

Poor Tanya, it isn't her fault!

A while ago I posted a thread asking about sharing creative ways to explain our various symptoms. What I got was a few responders (including our Kelly) saying they're sick of explaining, and sharing creative ways to tell people "bite me". :D

If somebody really, really wants explanation, I have some ready. Most of the time they mean well, but it seems as though they either want to argue with you or say "I know just how you feel...."

I agree with those who just get sick of it.

Bannet 07-18-2008 09:10 AM

Hi Kelly!!! I know it gets frustrating sometimes.

People truly just don't understand.

Anymore, when I go to a family gathering ,I wear my MS SUCKS tshirt (It's a white tshirt with huge red letters)


Not one person asks me how I'm doing, Is the meds working, etc......

I like it better that way:p

SandyC 07-18-2008 09:14 AM

Ooohhh Beth! I could make a shirt that says MS Sucks and so do YOU if you ask me why! lmao

yeahbut 07-18-2008 09:27 AM

Kelly - :hug: to you!!!

momXseven 07-18-2008 09:34 AM

I just made a long post of my own under Social Chat.

I wish I knew how to get others to understand your sick and there are things that are going to make you sicker.

I finally found something on MCS yesterday that some what got thru to DH. It said that these chemicals/fragrances that most others came be around and don't bother than that a person with MCS is 1000 times more sensitive to those chemicals/fragrances. I told him that was why I could even smell them when he couldn't.

I don't know if there is anyway to get thru some people but I'm always looking up stuff on it hoping I can find something. :confused:

sabimax 07-18-2008 04:14 PM

HUGSSSSSSSSSSSS

try that with being undx then it really is fun to answer over and over..how heat or how I get with humidity...ugggg hugsss,sarah:)

momXseven 07-18-2008 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by sabimax (Post 326167)
HUGSSSSSSSSSSSS

try that with being undx then it really is fun to answer over and over..how heat or how I get with humidity...ugggg hugsss,sarah:)

I was there for YEARS my self. Looking back I have had these same SX for over 15 years, they have just gotten worst over time. Been really trying to get a DX for about 10 years.

karousel 07-18-2008 08:38 PM

It has gotten to the point where I just say 'no' and don't bother explaining or trying to 'educate' family, including my DH at times. I find I am just repeating myself to those who aren't even listening. Maybe next time I'll try the lines you guys/gals use!!

sabimax 07-18-2008 09:05 PM

True Karousal, you get to know the ppl that really want to know and try to understand and others who are just hoping you get better without understanding...so in a way they both are usually someone caring about you..cause the one might just be bummed not to get to spend much time wiht you..hehe hugssss,sarah


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