Can let dog and cats (5) in, out, in, out (You know how they get - yard fenced), make microwave lunch, was willsome dishes if I have too, answer door (after looking out and making sure it's not the "mugger-masher".) I have a party soon to go to, will just use my manual and DH pushes. Yeah, some people have trouble not looking, but I can get a beer.

My use of a power chair was a simple matter of being practical. When I became eligible for a chair under Medicare, I applied for one. At the time my mobility was only a little bit compromised, but I did have to opt out of any activity that required standing and/or walking for any length of time. I wanted to “hope for the best and prepare for the worst,” and I wanted to be proactive. As time went on, I needed to use it more and more, which was upsetting, but I think that the grim facts were softened because I already had solutions in place. It made me feel in control, if that makes any sense.

Since I started taking LDN, I have not needed to use my power chair, but I would in a second if it meant that I could participate in an activity that I would otherwise have to pass up.

thank you jmiller marion and kick, thanks

as is my nature, I lost track of what has already been said.

Various chairs and scooters are available to rent. I was talking to a friend and he said it costs $75/week. It is a good way to see what you like.

I think there are three questions (for most of us)

1 will an aid (like a wheelchair) help me do what I want to do? What aid would best help me and where do I get it?


2 Do I see this as "giving in" or "reaching out"?

3 what snappy comeback will I use to repell any lookie-loos? (BTW we are really good at supplying examples)

Seriously, YOU have to decide when you are ready. I think you can tell that it is a very personal decision and not always one reached without angst. I wish you peace with your decision, regardless.

Now, what color will you be selecting;););)

I think he should go for a Harley Davidson look since he already has that look. I see black with a nice orange and racing stripes and Born To be Wild playing on his Mp3 with speakers attached! lol