You all are so smart you already probably know this...but, I was reading a diabetic book tonight and it said that docs spend 5 min. on our first complaint, and then 1 min. on about each of three following...so in other words, due to heavy patient loads, it is very important that we do the following suggestion.

Prior to the appt., think about all of the symptoms and problems you're having, or the chronic things that need to be reviewed for discussion.

Prior again, arrange these into some kind of group as in Problem, then the symptoms; Chronic Problem, changing symptoms or concerns; Pharmacy / Meds, and any side-effects, questions on meds.

Then look at your list and prioritize these by severity and importance.

They suggest that you can reasonably expect only 3 items (the main topic, not the symptoms) to be handled in one appt. If you've got more, when you make your appt., let doc's staff know.

If you can, make a copy of your priority list, so you and doc can read it together. If not, at least you are able to stick to your prioritized items, you won't forget a symptom, and if you get emotional, etc., you've got that nice paper there to refocus on.

I think this is so important for us because many of us have w/c or SS which requires certain points to be in our reports, AND, we often get upset while in the office. Also, our symptoms include forgetting!

Does anyone else have any ideas on bettering our doctor relationships or care?

Being in the med field for 27 years, knew that one front and back
I now go in with the numbered questions, rx's taking and sx's unless i'm "out of it" and not practicing my words
No going around written instructions, no interruptions
And if I forget something, its on me

I always think I'm one step ahead until times like last night.
Just puts more fire under my big fat ***

Carry my med hx, doc names with addresses and phone #'s, allergies to meds with me these days

I have found over the years that it just makes sense to write every down before you go in to see the doctor. That's if you have more then one thing wrong or you have a lot of questions. Since i got tos i write every thing down and take it to the doc with all the new symptoms i was getting. Knowing they have 15 min i know he well check it later when he is doing my file that way every thing gets documented. The other thing i do is write my list of meds and the dose and time i take and how much so when ever i see a doc i have the info right at hand for them other wise i am sure i would have to make lots of appointments because my memory is so bad.

I had a folder with my pen ready last visit and the doc my pcp, says oh you are a little obsessive compulsive...nicely....and he laughed so I then say no I have learned to cya or cover my bum.....legally so notes for every single visit!

I have learned to laugh and he now knows I have to do it to remember what I am saying....meds.... and also legal issues....

We now have an understanding!!

hugs,
Victoria