I'm having my 1st rib and scalene muscles removed in January and I'm really concerend becasue I don't have help....My husband works 6 days a week, leaves at 8:15 and gets home at 7:00 at night...and I have 3 kids. Thankfully
2 drive and can p/u my daughter form school, but then they leave again for their afternoon sports......Who's going to keep the house up, or laundry? To the best of my knowlege I won't be able to use my arm for a least a month...can I ask for help and what language should I use? I'm starting to worry that I won't heal properly if I don't get someone to help me....

I don't have a family member near by and my friends are overwhelmed with working and their own kids schedules....

Thanks