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08-28-2010, 03:37 AM | #1 | ||
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It's been 9 months sense my TBI and even though I have learned to read again and am allowed to drive once more I have just lost so much. My job-teacher, I had to move in with a friend (who I feel like a burden to), many of my friends no longer call, I'm beyond broke, most days I don't get out of bed or leave my room. I know who I am and who I was but I can't make them united together. It's fustrating to have your body betray you, it drives you insane when you can't trust your brain. Are those real memories or a dream? Did that happen yesterday or 3 months ago? Can I even trust my emotions around others? I don't want to bother anyone and tell them what I am really thinking or feeling. I wish that car accident would have just ended all of this and made my existance easier. I'm scared that if anyone finds out what i'm thinking they will think I'm crazy. I just don't want to start my life over, it's not worth it. I feel trapped and I want everyone to think I am ok but I really just want to die.
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08-29-2010, 06:06 AM | #2 | |||
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welcome to nt
adjusting to a altered self is the hardest part of an injury, on the sticky,s at the top of the page are some support groups and organizations that will help you, the system leaves. people with no support network , so its up to us to seek them out, the whole thing with TBI is it takes time. to recover . look how far you have come. you need not be on your own with this keep us posted
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08-29-2010, 12:10 PM | #3 | ||
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mbrook, I know how you feel! I've had similiar thoughts of despair myself. Just reading the posts here and reaching out has helped, so maybe that will do something, even small for you too.
Do you have any of the recommended books to also help reassure you? Two of them: Brainlash Coping with Mild Traumatic Brain Injury Please keep us posted and don't give up. |
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08-29-2010, 12:14 PM | #4 | ||
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I've felt that way at times. I don't know any quick or pat answer. I still struggle with it, although I'm much better at the one year mark and hope for a full recovery at some point in the future. It helps me to focus on what I can do, not what I've lost. It is hard to accept that I'm not the same, but I've had more peace since I came to terms with it. You're not crazy and this site is wonderful place for support, we understand. Hang in there.
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08-30-2010, 12:46 AM | #5 | ||
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mbrook,
mTBI is almost impossible to handle on your own. You need to be very strong to go it alone. Try trusting those who appear willing to listen. You will be surprised at how much they care, especially, once they understand. You definitely need to download and print out the TBI Survival Guide at http://www.drakecenter.com/file.axd?...vivalGuide.pdf Have your friends read it too. They will have ah ha moments that will empower them to help you. many are just confused as to how to respond to you, much less help you. Your friend needs to read it. It will help with household situations. You probably should see a professional to help determine if you are suffering from depression. I had horrible struggles with depression from many of the concussions I suffered in my younger years. One of the doctors I saw got me started on good vitamin nutrition and it helped immensely. I have posted many times about my nutritional recommendations. Hormones can also get very out of balance from a concussion. A good blood panel including thyroid (T-3, T-4, TSH), sex hormones, B-12, folate, Vit D, etc. PCS subjects need to be at the high end of the normal range for B-12 and the others. Avoiding or severely limiting caffeine, MSG, aspartame (Equal sweetener) is helpful. Let us know about your specific symptoms. There are many ways to deal with the symptoms of PCS. My best to you.
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08-30-2010, 01:21 AM | #6 | ||
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I'm just having a hard time trying to understand my new life. I'm 32 and now I have to start all over- new job, the foods I eat have even changed, and I'm trying to figure out who I'm suppose to be.
My Dr.s say I have Post Concussive Syndrome and Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome and want to put me on anti-depressants and anxiety meds. I just can't take any more pills. I'm already on major pain meds and seizure meds. I know I shouldn't be ashamed to tell people but I'm afraid they will think I am stupid or that I can't make my own decisions. I just keep saying I'm "Ok". Why am I so paranoid? |
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08-30-2010, 10:37 AM | #7 | ||
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Dear mbrook,
I too am a teacher with PCS. Today is my first day at HOME school, no commuting, no bells and no children, just me and my home. Ah darlin', I sooo know how you are feeling. Your world has been turned upside down and you are used to standing on your feet in front of a classroom of exploring eyes. It's time for yours and my eyes to explore differently. We are being home schooled...... This forum truly has opened my eyes to see and understand in ways I had not before. Read and learn And KNOW you are not alone Peace Quote:
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08-30-2010, 08:52 PM | #8 | |||
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hi mbrook
I hope you are feeling encouraged with the understanding and support here. When you first posted in the Sanctuary forum, you touched many hearts, and I know prayers are lifted for you I posted this on our pets forum, but I wanted to leave it here too, as a reminder to you that there are others who care about you because they know how you are feeling. I hope this brings hope and inspiration to not lose hope http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QK9Xj7eY0UU&sns=fb
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09-20-2010, 12:30 PM | #9 | ||
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Hi, I definitely know Exactly how you feel as I suffered a severe TBI almost 10 years ago. You are early in your recovery and you should look into HBOT(hyperbaric oxygen therapy) to assist in your recovery. Look up Dr. Richard Neubauer- Ocean Hyperbaric Neurologic Center in Lauderdale by the sea, Florida. He is the father of HBOT and its use for neurologic injuries. This treatment helped me the most of everything I did and I did all the conventional treatments and therapies.-I just wish I had known about this treatment option earlier. I too lost eveything including those I thought were friends, but I made some new friends that have really been helpful. Many times I have thought why didn't I just die as it would have been much easier and alot less painful. But I didn't die and I am presently taking each day as it comes(some definitely better than others!). I not only lost my ability to work and be productive(I was an equine veterinarian), but I lost my parents during this time and what my only brother did to me and them makes him lost to me also. The doctors and therapists just kept telling me what I couldn't do and it was all too negative(and I am negative enough!) so I researched and did my own thing. Never supposed to drive I do that now and never to be around horses I have three and a mini mule I take care of and "play" with. I have done some vet consulting for former clients and some new horse folks I met after my accident. Still would like to come up with a way to have an income as I too am barely hanging on financially but I am hanging on! I did try just about everything after my accident to facilitate healing and still it seems there should be someone in the medical community that could offer input into why my plastic brain has not formed new connections to allow my body to function. Both gross and fine motor are severely effected but nothing with memory,emotional or cognitive function. So basically I can't walk(or do so with great difficulty spending alot of time on the ground!) or talk intelligibly(I have dysarthria due to the muscles in my pharaynx not functioning- fyi:100 muscles are responsible for speech!). Hang in there and play it out. Do look up Dr. Neubauer and HBOT.Would enjoy talking to you anytime so ask me anything. Dr. Dianne Peek
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09-20-2010, 05:53 PM | #10 | ||
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Dr peek, Wow, what a story. Sorry for your reason for coming to NT but welcome.
It sounds like you had a very focused injury. Since your memory, cognitive and emotional functions are not damaged but your motor functions are severely damaged, your information processing was spared. Be very thankful. I have many times thought about what I would give up to get my cognitive and memory functions back. I think I would trade them for a wheel chair. I have a friend who is wheel chair bound from a low lumbar break. She has all of her cognitive, memory and emotional functions. The way she can attack life makes me sort of envious. Nothing stops her. She does not even use an electric chair. Yes, be very thankful you have your cognitive, memory and emotional functions. I understand that your motor functions are seriously impaired. I am not making light of that. You have my sympathies. Regarding plasticity. Many people over-rate neuro-plasticity. It has many limits. The young have a greater ability to rewire their brains that those over 20 to 25 years old. There are over 5000 different classes of neuronal cells. They can attempt to reconnect but do not have much ability to replicate. The stem cell research has shown that the successful stem cell therapies will start with common cells like nerve fibers that transmit nerve signals with those that process signals in the brain a long way off. Even when nerve cells reconnect, the process is very slow. The axons and dendrites connect using a happenstance system. As an axon grows and comes across a dendrite, it will try to connect to that dendrite. The dendrite will either accept or refuse the connection based on cellular coding. If the connection is refused, the axon will retract and try a different dendrite. One Neuron can have up to 10,000 axons. The complexity of this happenstance binary reconnect system takes a long time. Those of us with diffuse axonal injuries from concussions, multiple concussions or multiple sub-concussive impacts have millions of these weak connections that get shut down to prevent bad information transmission. This can leave us with weaknesses throughout the brain. I would wonder if you brain regions have even lost position relative to the other regions they were formerly connected to. This would make reconnections very problematic. Sort of a ' can't get there from here' scenario. Some brain cells have a sort of linear connection. The sensory processing cells are connected in such a way that if vision cells are not receiving vision input, they relax and get taken over by auditory and tactile inputs and the latter sensory systems gain increased processing power. This is how a blind person can have such highly developed auditory, olfactory and tactile senses. This reassignment can take place within 12 hours of the relaxation event. Well, enough for now. My brain is getting foggy. When this happens, I tend to find myself rereading the same line over and over again. My best to you.
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