I keep my 2 1/2 year old grandson one day a week and my 6 year old grandson stays overnight once a week. I am blessed because they are both very good children. 6 year old understands I have headaches and don't feel good much of the time.

I think you and your son will do ok. The most difficult thing will be getting into a routine. When he takes a nap you should too. You will need every bit of energy you can get.

deep breathes....and hang in there. My youngest daughter moved home and brought an 18 month old with her (at the time). Lots of noise and commotion-but he needs you.

Time to take charge, Nick.

Practice composing yourself. :)

Thanks everyone for the support.

I can hardly function right now :(...my cognitive functions are at an uncomfortable low. I've so far managed to take care of him...but I've got 2 doctor appointments today. Lots of driving, talking to doctors...yeah.

My cognitive skills are low as it is. How do those with little ones manage on their own?

I could hardly have an intelligent conversation with my mom this morning.

Your outbursts last night likely undid you. Take it slower. You do not need to right every wrong that someone says. Try to stop to think about what is happening before responding. Your little guy does not need instant results.

You can teach him to not be loud and chaotic by modeling a simpler behavior. Talking to him in a lower voice will elicit similar responses.

Keep in mind that he needs your patience and consistency. Put your smart phone away when his is awake. Give him your undivided attention even if it is just you sitting and watching him play on the floor. He does not need interaction to feel secure.

I spent 7 years taking care of this age in the nursery at church. They respond to peace and quiet. Many of the little ones did not need direct interact. Instead, they just wanted to be able to look up and see you there for them. I was known as the baby whisperer. They would give me the fussy ones and I would quietly settle them down.

Just take your time. He will learn to feel secure in a quieter atmosphere. You can do it.

You have too much drama in your life. I couldn't handle all that BS with a normal brain, I can't imagine how you deal with it recovering from a TBI. I am sending lots of positive vibes towards your life becoming more smooth over the course of the next few weeks and months. :hug:

Sounds like you're in a pretty good position to get him back.

The anger outbursts scare me as well. Having your mother there is a blessing.

Good luck to you.

Ah yes. We have Dcf which is prolly the same thing. Im glad you got him back. Now you have each other. Don't let anger guide you. I know its hard.