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Marina,

I am glad to hear you have been able to functionally 'let go' of the neat freak, etc. You sound like you suffer from a form of OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder). This results when the part of the brain that filters out extraneous stimuli does not function correctly. It lets the brain's process of trying to make order out of everything take over.

Understanding this can help with developing skills to over-come it. It can be both a blessing and a curse. I need walls to have very simple decorating still or they become very distracting as I notice every little discrepancy of alignment and such.

Your husband's work stress may be able to be reduced at home by him writing down the issues of that shift on paper or a computer journal. Putting thoughts in writing often helps the brain let go because they are remembered elsewhere than in brain memory. He may even make a note of his solutions to the issues so he does not carry that stress in his mind.

Unfortunately, your husband only see the ER presentation of concussion, not the prolonging symptoms. The YouTube video may help his grasp the reality of long term symptoms better.

I learned in EMT training about the limited view of patients related to the time/point of the contact. There is the First Responder's observations and treatment, the ER observations and treatments, and the long term care of the same injuries. Very few medical professionals have an opportunity to fully understand the patient's condition and needs outside those that present during their point of contact.

You may find that your kids can understand the symptoms as explained by the TBI Survival Guide so they can become more understanding in their efforts to support you. It is amazing how kids can learn when they are provided knowledge and experience. The simplicity in how they view their world can be a big benefit.

Hope you have had a good day.

My best to you.