Same here with all of that. I was assertive and focussed before with the ability to manage an entire zoo and act quickly with multiple tasks and decisions - safely persuading a leopard to return to her cage while co-ordinating staff and visitors via radio after someone left her door open.
I am now unable to focus or make sensible decisions or say NO - I am getting better at saying no first instead of yes because my 10yr old and 12 yr old got wise to how easy it is to coerce me to buy them things.
My current issue is the persuasive power of tv adverts and the internet as I'm stuck at home broke and bored with a devilish impulsive streak. Payday advance loans coupled with online gambling are going to cause me so much trouble, but with the memory of a goldfish I'll have forgotten its a bad thing to do by the time I finish this post