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Memories can be cruel, they can make us feel as if we are back in time, then were presented with the harsh reality of present times.
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Yes, I agree. Sometimes a shot of Vodka or Whisky helps that, sometimes it doesn't.
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However hold onto your memories, they are yours and do not belong to anyone else.
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I miss that they don't belong to my wife as well as I.
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Your suicidal thoughts are just that, thoughts. These can become actions when there is noway out. You have a way out -
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No, I don't think about suicide. But having to drive so much, the thought of how swiftly a crash can occur - especially a head on crash such as she experienced - enters my thoughts often. It's awful and I don't wish to die.
But I want to be closer to my wife, close like we used to be. I miss that a lot.
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You will be very surprised how much a good councillor helps your thought process. You can turn any horrific situation into a bearable, peaceful one with their help.
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Sometimes she gets very forgetful (well, ok always!). Last night in bed she held my hand and she told me in sign that she loves me forever.
She is still my beautiful girl and once in a rare while she shines through the captivity of her injuries. When her injuries continue to capture and hold her against all of our wills, well it is a very hard thing to bear.
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Your wife is still a human and all humans thrive on love. Females love to feel wanted and needed. Tell your wife you love her everyday no matter what. I promise it will register.
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I always tell her now and even before the crash I made it a point to let her know multiple times every day how I feel about her. Life is short.
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12-13-2012, 12:49 PM
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