Hi Abu44b,

It generally takes about one year for the brain to get through the TBI. Sometimes, longer or shorter, depending upon severity of injury and area damaged.

Since my brain surgery and injury, I've slowly accepted the fact that I cannot push myself too hard. I haven't drank in 15 years anyway (due to likelihood of increased seizures), but I now have to reduce distractions as much as possible, to get my job/s done. When I don't, I lose it. I lose impulse control in those times - which can be quite dangerous, for me and others! I now understand that sad reality, and do all I can to remain in control. It does work for me, but it also takes some time, acceptance, and hard work.

Everyone in this world has limits. The sooner one understands and accepts their personal limitations, and works around them, the better. You may be able to go back to drinking with your buddies soon - who knows?

Honestly, I hold very strong feelings against drugs and alcohol. I totally understand your desire to be around your buddies, hanging out, but that doesn't have to include drinking . Try to make the occasion less stimulating = less people & conversation to try and decipher. Take away the music during those times if you can.

Best wishes to you!
Shez