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03-26-2007, 02:22 PM | #1 | |||
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I went to our favorite store today and Walmart. I bought a new sweeper, brought it home and it needed to be put together. Again I thought of Bob. I just laid down for a while, then put it together the best I could. It doesn't pick up dog fur so I am disapointed. Thats what I bought it for.
I got another "sorta" big doll at Goodwill. I hope I can do something with the hair. It's a fright! I also got some china dishes that match my nicest set. That is nice and it is some I don't already have also. Thanks for your good thoughts. I don't know what brought this on, but I still have it. Wendy he hasn't been dead a year, till July. he actually only lived 3 months after they found out he had cancer. The Radiation and Chemo didn't do him a bit of good. He didn't even lived threw the Chemo. He just had 3 treatments. Thanks for starting the forum up Alffe! _____ BC |
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03-26-2007, 03:04 PM | #2 | |||
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Billie...you are still grieving and may I say, from one who has walked this path, you were/are not grieving properly. The way you are feeling right now, is normal. Your dear husband has not been dead that long and of course you miss him terribly. You were cheated out of precious time.
Give yourself plenty of time, plenty of tears, and don't have expectations of feeling good. It's way too soon. Some day your memories won't be this painful. Do you have a support group near you? They are truly wonderful and will understand and help you. (((Billie))) I hesitate to mention this but sometimes the second year is harder than the first.
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03-26-2007, 04:39 PM | #3 | |||
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HUGS BILLE, my sisiter. Will try to call tonight. I have been worried about you. Anne: hug:
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03-26-2007, 06:04 PM | #4 | |||
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Hugs to all you dear ladies and any men we have amongst us.
(((((HUGS))))) bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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03-26-2007, 06:17 PM | #5 | |||
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May I say, this is not normal for me. I was extremly busy up to the middle of January, with all the things I sold. Then, I ran around, for I hadn't had time to, up until then. I did feel good when I said I was. It's just all of a sudden when March 23 rd came around I realized that was the day we found out he had cancer, so I looked at my calendar and there was all the treatment dates and surgery. Then I went to the graveyard and I haven't been the same since. I have talked to a few that has experienced the same and they say, this is how they did too. So, I guess it is normal. Thanks for your kind words.
Anne, I hope you can call! ____ BC |
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03-26-2007, 06:45 PM | #6 | |||
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03-26-2007, 06:49 PM | #7 | |||
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(((Billie)))
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03-26-2007, 11:31 PM | #8 | |||
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I too wanted to offer hugs for you billie, take all the time you need...grief can grip you at any time, a song on the radio.... When I lost my brother the song "you are the wind beneath my wings" would bring me to tears..sometimes to this day even and that was some 15 years ago.
(((HUGS))) bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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03-27-2007, 11:29 PM | #9 | |||
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Billie,
I wish I could help you feel better. I still grieve my mom of over 2 years now since she passed. It's not as bad as the 1st 15 or 18 months or so. befuddled2 |
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03-28-2007, 07:47 AM | #10 | |||
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Here is where you posted this message. Anyway I wanted you to know I have seen it. I hope I get feeling better too. I believe it to be arthritis. Everything hurts and it did rain all night. Maybe after I start moving , I'll feel some better.
The grieving thing is better. I dread seeing that come around again. People tell me it is normal. Hows your schooling coming along? ___ BC |
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