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Originally Posted by hollym
She is confused by the nurses being here. She can't wrap her mind around the fact that she is in my home but it feels like a hospital part of the time, too. She knows she is dying now, though. She kept forgetting before, but I guess having hospice makes it real. She said she wished that we could just put people to sleep like we can with animals. She said it is stupid to do do all this crap and just wait to die. She is right, I think.
So far, hospice has been a good experience. They are taking care of everything that I want them to. I think it's going to be OK. I hope so.
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What you are doing is so Wonderful! I would Never trade the last minutes I had with my grandfather. I held his hand the entire evening he passed.
If you think about what would make YOU most secure if it were you in that bed....then the rest will follow, very naturally, lovingly, & peaceful.
I pray for your family & for the love of all those around you to help you thru this time.