I was about to type... is it fair to child due to child having to lose you to death, by early age probably....but then I was thinking also, if this child is that wanted most likely will be so very loved... so guess looking thru it... not sure..

I do think it is too old of age to artificially make it happen...so I guess not right and being selfish to wait till that age then decide ..oh I think I will have a baby....

also, just taking care of my llittle ones at age 39 right now, well I know sxs make it harder... but even healthy.... thinking of a little one at ages in the 60s... so my vote is NO not fair....

hugss,sarah