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Originally Posted by AintSoBad
Tracy,
It sure has been a long time! I feel bad for your circumstances, but you know, someone always has it worse. Always.
I have a friend I'm trying to support who has RSD, RA, and CANCER!! Broken arm and collar bone from an accident. Trying to get to Philly for specialized cancer treatment, but, had a spot on the brain, and recieved some radiation along with laser surgery. Now, all kind of dizziness, and can't get on a plane to get to Philly.
But this is where the doctors want her to be.
Cancer is such a HUGE business, that it's like trying to trust a lawyer. ( to trust an oncologist ).
I'm in a legal battle for more than a decade, lost everything, (which was not a little bit), and my children hate me for it, don't understand the illness and tbi.
So, you can see, Tracy, you've got to be strong. I doubt the 25 y.o. would have to do any more than pay child support, once it's Proven by blood work that it's his child.
BTW, studies have found that the best form of birth control pill, is an aspirin. (Held firmly between the knees). i hope you can appreciate a joke...
You will get through this, Tracy. Nobody is dying. In fact, you may have new life to celebrate!
It's All in your attitude!
I hope it works out well for you!
Pete
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Tracy...
I am so sorry for all of your pain and sadness....it's time to step back and relish as possibly this new little baby will give you a different path... AND yes it does you a world of good to drop to your knees and shout and cry...That is a must and healthy..you my friend, should do that a few more times!!! Try not to let all of this pull you down..Love your family for all that they are to you...they are human, as we are too..in trying to live with our RSD..You know baby steps as everything will push you right over if you try to handle it all at one time..life really is eventful and at times, unfair..but remember my favorite saying...it is: "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass..life is about learning to dance in the rain", my friend..look at life with a positive spin and say..this is what god mean't for me.. then I am good.. lets pray for a healthy baby and for us to have a painless day..the rest can slide!!! okay????
Many hugz as you will be okay..just take some deep breaths..
Kathy
