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Old 08-19-2010, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by waves View Post
Dear Meg

it is hard to know what to say.

you want meds.

you don't want doctors.

i hear you. the problem is, you can't get the one you want without the other. can you just see the "doctors" as a gateway to meds and feeling better? i'm sorry you've had bad experiences with them. perhaps try a new person. i've had some good ones with whom i did not feel judged or disrespected.

i want you get help. i am hearing that you want help. you need a professional right now, even if you don't want one. please do what you need to do... see a doctor or go to a hospital, to get your meds, even if you'd prefer not to.



~ waves ~
I wish there was a way to have everything about what I feel is wrong with me sent to a bunch of doctors and have THEM tell me who's best to help me. there is nothing that makes me more depressed/upset/whatever im feeling than having to repeat myself 378583765 times and then have everyone either disregard what im saying or just not listen all together. I feel like I'm explaining everything to a wall. :[


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Originally Posted by virginia neill View Post
Hi, and I am sorry you are hurting. Pain is pain, physical or mental. Yes it is hard to deal with. I am just another hurting soul, thinking of you. I already know there are alot of people here who are willing to listen. I am not in such good shape, but I know too that others hurt. I am reaching out to you hopes you know I care about you. Ginnie
I hope that your hurt decreases soon, you're a very caring individual I hope that I can help you just as you have helped me. stay strong :]


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Originally Posted by bizi View Post
You will have to reach out to get help. You can not be passive here.
this takes courage on your part.
I am hoping that you find the strength to go thru this...you need professional help to feel better.
I am sorry it is so hard right now.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi
I've tried to reach out/get attention and now I have nothing left in me to try anymore. I can't keep telling 8753875 people what I think is wrong for them to tell me I'm crazy or to 'just relax' there is NOTHING that bothers me more than when someone I don't know (doctor/pdoc/tdoc) tells me everything is going to be Fine, how do they know!? I don't FEEL fine and so far nothing has been fine. ugh


I feel defeated...like I've pulled out all the stops and I just cant fight anymore
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