Makes me think of another thread with discussion of dysfunctional families.

Thanks for posting that Ms. Alffe. So much of that is true. Lord knows I held onto a few things about my parents that, well, really and truly affected me. And for the most part, only one or two of those things have really changed. That holding on to those feelings for years...well, what a waste of emotional energy. Total waste of emotional energy.

I can't use up any more time playing a 'blame' game.