(((Bobby)))

i am sorry your friend is having heart troubles. i know it is hard not knowing what is happening. makes one feel so frustrated and helpless. it can also lead us to fearing the worst, when that is not always the reality of things.

perhaps he just needs some time to digest things his own before he can share. but whether he decides to or not i am sure he knows he has a good friend in you, and that it helps him to know you are there for him.

ultimately he did confide in you, just enough to he let you know that he is not ok right now. then it sounds like he had to retreat into his private emotional cave. i bet he feels really vulnerable. many men behave that way when they feel vulnerable. it is how most of us were brought up. even today, our culture mostly teaches women to express vulnerability and men to hide it.

love

~ waves ~