I have a HUGE personal collection of music at home.
I have found that I am unable to listen to most of it still, much of the time...
I own some Brian Eno stuff and dig on it a lot.
But I completely understand Mark's opinion too. I felt the same way just the other day at a restaurant that had some Jazz playing over the loudspeaker - it was stuff I really would've liked before the accident and I can't even listen to it nowadays, I had to leave the restaurant ASAP.
Luckily, I'm still making a lot of improvement through all of this, so I'm hoping I'll be able to listen to any kind of music that I want to again without trouble or having to suffer.
Some of the more relaxing stuff I own that I recommend people check out:
Herb Ernst
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0qOPSw8rK0
Deuter
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=slpQv-ePdc4
Merlin's Magic -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cQJwSjeP2rk
Deborah Van Dyke
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNMAGoslneE
Enigma
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rk_sAHh9s08&feature=fvsr
Zero 7
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=INn1C...15806F3189C6A3
Electric Skychurch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ve_msFETDI
Buddha Bar cds
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ia-Xl...eature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P48J8...eature=related
And I just found this gem looking for the others ^:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=03cCv...eature=related
I think if you want to find some relaxing music, just doing a search for "meditation", "new age", "Reiki", "massage", or even "relaxation" on you tube is going to yield some pretty great stuff!