Love Light and prayer Saffy. Statements and letters that say I'm sorry there is nothing else we can do are so hard to comprehend. God willing there will be something in the future to help. Here is a prayer my friend gave to my husband in some of his darkest times years ago. It's now my prayer.
Sandy Kay

A PRAYER FOR HEALING
Lord,
You invite all who are burdened to come to You.
Allow Your healing hand to heal me.
Touch my soul with Your compassion for others.
Touch my heart with Your courage and infinite love for all.
Touch my mind with Your wisdom, that my mouth may always proclaim Your praise.
Teach me to reach out to You in my need.
Help me to lead others to You by my example.
Most loving Heart of Jesus, bring me health in body and spirit so that I may serve You with all my strength.
Touch gently this life which you have created.
Amen