That does indeed sound like the right kind of determination. Especially as (but don't tell him... although he probably knows) alcohol - for many - is a very potent and almost instant pain killer. Very temporary obviously, and the next day(s) it only makes things worse, but that's the rational brain talking, not the addicted one.

I hope things will get better for him (and for you) soon though.

PamelaJune, I am in awe of DB's strength in the face of all that the world has thrown at him recently.

I hope that his infection clears up soon.

If you want to, please pass on my congratulations to him for staying sober.

DB back to work again tomorrow, he is feeling very anxious, worried they will think poorly if him for having had to have time off, this on top of all the time he had off late last year with his rehab and depression. Says if he doesn't go tomorrow doubts he will get there ever again. I know he doesn't see it, but he is so very strong right now, through all of this last 3 weeks with the infections and back n forth to hospital not once has he mentioned alcohol. Very different behaviour to past illnesses. Of course tomorrow on his way home from work will be a challenge, I believe in him, I believe the campral has made a huge difference, so I think does he.

That all sounds positive to me.

I hope that going back to work turns out well for DB.

Home safe n sound, going strong with his determination.

Great to read .

Not sure if the infection is cleared, looks very painful and the stitches are finally falling free. Went to the Park this afternoon and had lunch in the cafe there, he felt very agitated with everyone drinking around him, we had lunch and a lemon lime n bitters each, then went for a stroll through the park and home. First time out in months. Small steps.

Small but good steps are the way to go I think .

Apparently it is possible after trauma such as a difficult wisdom teeth removal, the bone can die and it make its way to the surface. I don't know how much more DB can take, it will have to be surgically removed, we hope from the dental chair and not hospital! We are going on a small holiday in 24 days, a 7 night cruise, supposed to be! Fingers crossed DB gets some relief soon. Still sober!

It is good that DB is still sober.

Maybe you could post on the dental forum (http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum89.html).

I have the impression that Bryanna is the resident NT expert there - she has wise things to say.