Well it was a lovely evening, and the family arriving from over East an excellent surprise. Suffice to say DB got through the evening, and then attending the football match the following day but has not fared well mentally since. No lapse, but he is mentally drained and unable to get out of bed. Hopeful tomorrow will be better for him and he can pull himself out and face his hour and a bit long drive journey to and then from work following a 12 hour shift. Called in sick today, seems to be completely shattered, slept virtually 24 hours.