Hey Keiri! I just had an anyeurism coiled and I feel pretty good. It is about 1 month and two days since the surgery. Mine actually ruptured while I was working out. It was a class 3 rupture which means serious bleeding into my brain. I actually died for about 7 minutes. Thank G-d for my training partner, the paramedics and the doctors at Emory Hospital in Atlanta, GA. I think they are #1 in the coun ty for anyeurisms. You can't run from it so, just face it with confidence and think positive and all will be OK. Sorry to hear about your relationship with your husband. You can start a new life once this is all over and done with. And, like I said in my response to your response about my ad. When you are finished and recovered from your surgery get yourself to the gym because a strong, healthy body will get you through anything and it will also let you live longer and stronger. I wish you the best.