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10-01-2009, 12:06 AM
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Jeff is away again....how come I can't be alone????
I am a mess....I am all obcessed with refinancing our mortgage...currently at 6.625% and we can get it for 4.35% but will cost us in closing costs etc. any body know about stuff like this, rate lock in...have 30 days right? anyway I have been on this computer researching rates and loans and companies...... I have made myself sick. hours on the computer. With my families help, I found out that my neice got engaged but her fiance is leaving for afganistan in a couple of weeks, he is a marine. So they are scared and worried about him. Please keep Jake in your thoughts. I am heading to bed..... I hope I can sleep. bizi sigh he gets back friday nite. last time he was gone 5 days...I was a complete mess then.
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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10-01-2009, 12:58 AM
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(((((((((((( hugggggs )))))))))))))
have you discussed your issues with being alone with your T and with your pdoc? (i would tell both... it can be part of a broader picture.) i will certainly keep Jake in my thoughts for you. how scary. and you hang in there. Jeff will be back soon. keep the kitties near you.  ~ waves ~ |
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| "Thanks for this!" says: | bizi (10-01-2009) |
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10-01-2009, 03:25 AM
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Dear Bizi,
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Regarding the lock. Sometimes they charge you a fee after the lock in case you want the chance to get a lower rate. This might sound strange, but the details from one good mortgage to another don't matter too much -- what they take from one place they add to another. So what we did was find two banks and compare -- just two. We went with the one that was literally nicer to me on the phone -- it was a lot of work and I wanted a nice team. Also, we went with the team that was in town so we could take stuff into the office instead of dealing 100% with the emails and the faxes. Regarding your neice: There are some forums for parents / families of marines: http://www.usmcparents.com/forum/default.asp?group=10 http://www.marinemomsonline.net/join.html http://www.navyformoms.com/ If she gets married she will have more rights as wife. The Marines are highly trained and have good equipment. Also, he and his group members will take very good care of each other. I hope he will have an easy tour. I'm sorry that you are a lone again. Is it possible to make arrangements to go with him the next time he goes away? M. Last edited by Mari; 10-01-2009 at 10:25 AM. |
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10-01-2009, 07:34 PM
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Dear waves, thank you for what you said, I should talk about this alone time with my therapist I see her next week.
dear mari, thank you for the links and I went a head and refinanced our house thru our existing mortgage company. 10 years at 4.25% making extra payments we could have it payed off in 7 1/2 years!!!!! that would be fantastic!That means we would have our house paid off before our student loans....ugh! My goal is to be completly debt free in 10 years. I would love to be able to scream on the dave ramsey show: "I am debt free!" bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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10-02-2009, 08:43 PM
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Wisest Elder Ever
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my sweetie is home now...all is well, my sense of sanity has returned.
bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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