Sharla I know you are upset and am so sorry that you and your husband are being treated that way. It reflects badly on those people and they should be ashamed

I do just have to remind everyone of the guidelines here about bad language, and "flame" remarks re religion, sexual orientation, ethnicity etc. It gets some members upset too, and we need to always maintain a safe and neutral atmosphere here, for *all*

I see the word filters in our software have already filtered the language and I had to do a small edit as well. But just because we have word filters doesnt mean one should just keep cussing anyway. Many members are offended by that, even seeing the **** when it is clear what was meant

I am going to also post a link to the guidelines
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=1293

thanks

My apologies
I was really upset and lost control.

I never meant to go against the guidelines.
If I have offended anyone one on this forum in the past, I apologize for that too.
I will try and watch my mouth from now on. I am a very graphic person when it comes to expressing myself. IT better to let it out soon than to go around like a walking time bomb. Trust me when I say that is worse when I do.
And I did take the time to put up a cone thing as a warning of a trigger.
Now I can not help but to wonder, how come no one notified me through pm about this being an issue in the first place?

I was not offended.....we need places to vent.
bizi

yes one needs to be able to vent, but as mods & admin we have to be sure that others arent offended by the venting and some people are more sensitive than others, so that is why we have those guidelines

Sharla, I didnt just post above to you, but for everyone to remember the guidelines. I know it is sometimes easy to forget them when upset, and there were a few posts, not just yours, that may upset members of specific religions, orientations, ethnicities etc...so my post was generalized, and to prevent upset

no need to feel bad...it was just a gentle reminder to all re the guidelines for posting to prevent upset before it arose

I hope that you will feel better soon. This type of situation can cause deep grief,and feelings of rejection.

You need to vent,and talk about something like this that is bothering you. I hope that what I have said has given you some relief. BF

We are here for you when you are venting and when you are not.
Next time skip the bad words.
Everything is cool.
M.

To Broken Friend:
Thank you for everything that you said and you are right. You make me feel better. It is ashame when people behave a certain way, when I expect better of them. Not everyone is like that of course it is just a bummer that most of them that happen to know me would just two face me. I will stay far away from these people. I do not need to be involved with those certain individuals. I am thinking of going to St Lukes tommorow with my husband. He is actually looking forward to going there because he went there years ago and really enjoyed his experience. So I am going to check it out and see if I can get counseling. I do not want it. But I know I need it.

Chemar: Thank you for talking to me. I have just been so emotional and sensitive to certain things. Thanks for not getting fed up with me.


I hate being so sensitive. All I can think about is how my step mother told me to get over it and tough it out. And the harder I push myself to tough it out and try and get over it, I cry harder and longer.


Mari: I will skip those bad words and overcome the gossipers.
I am glad my husbands family at least accept me and that is the most important part.

Bizi: I am glad I have not offended you. My mouth is out of control when I am super upset. It is hard to manage most of the time.