Hi all,

I have decided to let the bf go and I blocked his phone number from calling mine yesterday morning. I am okay with this as I've had lots of 3-D people on my side giving good advice and comforting words. I won't go into why and it was upsetting at 1st to make the decision but it was sure to happen sooner or later so I'm doing it in the now moment before it goes any further. I have lots of guys who think I'm cool and like me and are willing to be just my friend for the time being. I'm going to take a break from having a boyfriend though. My bf I just broke up with was wrong from the beginning cause he was a rebound from the old boyfriend Bobby. But now I don't feel like I need any man in my life to make me feel complete.

Take as long as you need!
bizi

Barbara...

Correct me if I am wrong... you and your ex-husband were divorced before he passed away?

If so, was there anything in the divorce decree that said you were entitled to anything in his will?? If not, there stands a great chance that you are likely not entitled to anything.

There is a good chance that he changed his beneficiary's after your divorce... I know many lawyers recommend changing insurance policies and wills after a divorce.

If he had no one listed as a beneficiary to begin with... it would be up to the courts but most likely it would be split by his next of kin....parents, brothers, sister, nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and cousins.

As far as your stay in the Psych hospital... it sounds like you were placed there against your will... was this done by a 51/50? Either way... you would be liable for the medical expenses incurred while there. I know it doesn't sound right or fair... but that's the way it is... anytime we go into any kind of medical office or hospital either by choice or against our will and are treated by any medical professional... we are liable for the costs of treatment incurred.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news...

Abbie

Abbie, you're not the bearer of bad news. You just let me see things in a different perspective. It has given me other ideas that may work for the better of me than my old ideas. Thank you.

Barbara

Barb
I hope things start to get resolved. I do think you should look into whether
what your supposed lawyer did was ethical because taking your $800.00
and then just calling your ex's parents lawyer to get the answers doesn't
sound right to me.

I would think he should have done more research. I think I'd contact the
Law Board or Bar whatever its called and ask them what the proper
proceedure would have been.

Even though I'm thinking Abbie could easily be correct.


Donna

Good idea Donna. I had thought about doing that but haven't because of breaking up with bf and all that drama. I just can not function to full capacity.

barbara

Hey I thing Barb that anytime this next month is soon enough to
inquire.

Donna

My bf came by tonight and knocked on my door but I ignored him. I felt bad later so I called him and told him by phone him and I were done. He wanted to know why. He said that he was working all weekend and he couldn't get ahold of me. He went to my friend's house after he left my place to see if she heard anything about me.

Barbara

Barb
It sounds like he is really trying. Not like the other guys you have
been around.

donna

I know Donna. I've regretted breaking up with him. I listen to this other guy I know who tells me bad things about my boyfriend to try to get us to break up. I don't know why I keep talking to this other guy. I called my bf this morning but he was at work and it was noisy so he said he would call me back.