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mymorgy 06-13-2010 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Alffe (Post 664261)
bobby...do you have a crate? It's much easier to housebreak a dog when you use a crate...they won't foul where they sleep. And you can take luc out when you want to walk him. Dogs are smart...he'll get it. :)

my neighbor lent me a crate but the trouble is that he stayed in a crate for four months so he soils in the crate. he also has so much puppy energy and can't go out until he has his shots on the 29th. they postponed his shots since they cost money. i paid them to give him his previous shots. we had to wait a month to get him a ride to nyc,,,,another month to be crated ...ugh

but thanks,
bobby

mymorgy 06-13-2010 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Mari (Post 664276)
Dear Bobby,

Here's a book I sent my sis when she first adopted her dogs:
Good Owners, Great Dogs / Brian Kilcommons
. . . also this one Raising Your Dog with the Monks of New Skete

She has two big dogs (95lbs and 80lbs)

I just talked to her and asked her if she has any advice for you.

She said:
-->low voice -- practice "NO" low and slow and use a specific hand gesture that goes with it. Dogs growl to let each other know that they are unhappy. Don't growl but do be low. Low = serious


-->high voice --- fun sound -- happy sound -- whine
A high voice to a dog is a good sound. So use that for a fun voice.

Make sure that he knows that you are in charge
Once in a while she would put her hand in front of their food or even take it away and then give it back to them so that they knew that she was in charge of the food.

This was from that book Good Owners, Great Dogs


M.

thanks Mari
i willl try that. maybe i will get the books...i got four books by Dodson. i just bought the books
bobby

waves 06-13-2010 05:55 PM

this has been one big adventure ... perhaps a more stressful one than you bargained for... i am glad Abby's behavior has calmed down some. the lemon-water sounds like a good idea. you are on the right track. these things do take time, but it will be a finite amount of time. This dog is a challenge because of how long he was crated, but he is still a puppy so he will learn... what do you do, when you do catch him right after he poops/pees? do you pick him up and put him in the designated place? does that work with dogs?

love

~ waves ~

mymorgy 06-14-2010 07:18 AM

i don't usually catch him after he poops or pees. he peed on the paper this morning but i think it was an accident lol. he can hold them both for so long he is really sneaky
i guess if i caught him in the act i would put him on the paper right after..just caught him...he went in his crate and pooped and i took him to the paper
love
bobby

mymorgy 06-15-2010 04:11 PM

just got back from the vets....abbby needs to be spade. she weighs only 4 pounds 15 ounces. yuki beats her at 5 pounds. my cat guru changed her cell phone number and now i can't reach her...more stress...ouch-she will be spade next tuesday. another friend is moving in two years
what have i done....anyways i am too much of a coward to kill myself...
bobby

waves 06-15-2010 05:18 PM

wowwww well at least that mystery is solved!

i mean, i think it is surprising that she went in heat after all this time... but... hey... at least it is an explanation!!!

(((hugs)))

i hope you can get hold of your cat-guru somehow... do you have an email, or snail mail addy?

love

waves

Mari 06-15-2010 06:03 PM

Dear Bobby,
Keep holding on. You are doing well.
Focus on one day.
You have your two cats and your Luc and you can take care of them. You are taking care of them.


Mari

mymorgy 06-16-2010 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by waves (Post 665069)
wowwww well at least that mystery is solved!

i mean, i think it is surprising that she went in heat after all this time... but... hey... at least it is an explanation!!!

(((hugs)))

i hope you can get hold of your cat-guru somehow... do you have an email, or snail mail addy?

love

waves

i have her address somewhere but it is so buried i might as well not have it. i don't have her email. she was such a big help in emergencies.
bobby

mymorgy 06-16-2010 06:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Mari (Post 665081)
Dear Bobby,
Keep holding on. You are doing well.
Focus on one day.
You have your two cats and your Luc and you can take care of them. You are taking care of them.


Mari

i didn't sleep last night because i was just worrying about everything. i also don't think luc pooped yesterday. i hope he doesn't have an obstruction and needs an operation. All these expenses are scaring me. I have been spending so much money which i really don't have. i feel so trapped. i love all my animals so much including that little rascal. he was sleeping so peacefully on my futon last night with me without a care in the world and i kept on worrying about an obstruction and about his relationship with the cats and his housetraining. I feel trapped in life. i am editting this to say Luc pooped....yea!
bobby

Mari 06-16-2010 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by mymorgy (Post 665242)
. i am editing this to say Luc pooped....yea!
bobby

YEA! Luc is a good dog. :)

A friend of mine adopted a very young (6 months perhaps) Miniature Schnauzer because the two previous owners could not deal with her pooping in the house.
My friend was good with the dog, but even so it took the dog a while to catch on (Maybe a year) The dog could hold it for what seemed like very long periods of time. When she got walked, she was picky about where and when she went. (I think my friend eventually taught her to go at a certain spot during their walk.)
The dog sometimes would go near the pads from the pet store -- she would miss the pad by a few inches and so on.

My friend was patient and the dog eventually caught on about where she is supposed to go -- although she still can hold her poop for longish periods of time (more than a day or even two if I recall.)

I know you have experience with your other two dogs but perhaps SOMETIMES this is a Schnauzer trait.

M.


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