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Old 02-09-2011, 09:18 AM #1
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How are you doing this morning?
Hi,
I didn't sleep last night.

I have to leave for work.
I wish I could fix my sleep.
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I wish you could fix it too Mari, it's so hard when you can't get a basic good night's rest, I need to start using my cpap again, maybe after this flu runs its course....I feel for you. Take care.
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mari, do you still use the cpap? or is that part of the problem?
wish it were easier for you
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Dear Mari

i hope you made it through work ok today.

2 more days and then weekend, whew.

i hope you can sleep sometime, somehow, between now and tomorrow. i hate that sleep is so hard for you.

sending soothing thoughts and

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You sound so exhausted Mari!

I can only wish you the best balance (sleep-wise).
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i feel so badly for you. My father used to verbally batter me until i became hysterical. Only then, did he seem to calm down and lose all his anxiety.
I never found a way of dealing with it........does your husband have a conscience?
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I'm sure he has a conscience. Maybe he is less aware. I remember Mari said he also deals with OCD.
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i feel so badly for you. My father used to verbally batter me until i became hysterical. Only then, did he seem to calm down and lose all his anxiety.
I never found a way of dealing with it........does your husband have a conscience?
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He's not nice when he gets ramped up into that mode.

He cares a great deal about right and wrong -- that is part of what he is obsessing about. But he is not as kind to me as he should be.

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Hi,
I wrote the post in the middle of the night and thought I deleted it without notice.

Essentially he is nice except when he is not.
Most of the time I can deal with him either way.

Last night we were both stressed and he was horrible because
1 first I got caught up in his repeating talk in order to calm him, and then
2 responded in a way that did not satisfy him.

In these situations he accuses me of being un supportive because he wants to keep pushing and pushing his worries until I can't take any more.
. .. I know to leave the room and find something else to occupy myself -- except when I am stressed and my guard is down.

He got over it within minutes.
I'm not over it. I feel that he is cruel and selfish.

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