Jack has said he still wants to move in June and though part of me thinks he's not serious and part of me thinks he is. I can't handle a move into a rental house. I just can't. And then there's the anxiety over money creeping up. I just cannot handle the uncertainty of our future finances, its good now but it can change in July if we don't get renewed by then. I don't want to talk about it much other then what I said above.

On the good news front, Jackie is going to Sea World on Tuesday with his class, I am really excited for him, I hope he does well, I just don't know how well its going to go so I am pretty anxious about it. I wish it was over with already. Then we have spring break not this week but next. I hate that because kiddo doesn't like to go back when its over with. Its frustrating for us because he gets in this mood where he is noncooperative with bathing and we really have to work at convincing him to get in to the shower.

I hope that he has a good time at Sea World but I am probab ly going to have to take a couple of ativan's to get through it. They won't be back until 7 pm so that is awkward. He's probably going to want to eat then too, so I will have to reheat dinner for him. I just have so much anxiety about this field trip. They have one on one ratios for the kids, so each kid has an adult, but even so its worrying me, I talked to the teacher and they wil accommodate Jackie's needs, but it's going to be hardest on me I think because of waiting in that parking lot while they are on the way home.

Good grief, this kid and his obsession with holey things, My stupid seat cushion has some holes in it and he ripped up one to be twice as big as it was before he fiddled with it while I was sitting here. Sheesh, I wish he'd stop ripping up things. Its really frustrating and makes me buy his shirts from a thrift store instead of new, I bought some brand new shorts and have to sew them up because they have developed a new hole right in the center of the crotch and if he sees it forget it they will be shredded. *sigh*

Thanks for letting me vent everyone, I am just feeling so anxious I have been taking two .5's a day of my ativan to combat the physical symptoms of anxiety that i just can't cope with. I think the stomach in knots is the worst, the racing heartbeat, well I can overlook that easier then i can the stomach sensations....Hope your weekend is going well, mine's been okay, except for a migraine yesterday.

Well now jackie is acting like he doesn't want to go, so I don't feel confident in sending him to the park. I think he's just not ready for it. So I don't want him to go, he's saying "No, not going" when I ask him if he wants to go to Sea World, so I really think it would be too much for him....Oh well, it's nice he had the chance to go...

Dear Pam,

I hope that you can stay in your current house.
It makes sense to me that Jackie should take the lead on whether on not he wants to go to Sea World. Either way, it will be ok.
M.

Thanks Mari, I agree Jackie needs to want to go or else it won't be a good thing. He grabbed onto me and said, "Scared, so scared" when I showed him video of the one Shark encounter where you walk through a tube and see sharks everywhere, but I think it was the tube part that scared him and not the sharks so much. I don't think he should go, his dad thinks he should, but I don't...We'll see, I am going to call the teacher on Monday and see what she thinks....Have her ask him there at school about it, if he says NO then he shouldn't go.

Dear Pam,
Yes. The teacher knows Jackie very well.
She should lister to your concerns.
M.

hi pammy,

I am sorry that you are dealing with your anxiety.
I wish you hand more security AND LESS WORRYING.
IT IS OK TO TAKE THE ANTI ANXIETY MEDS THAT IS WHAT THEY ARE THERE FOR.
HOPE THEY ARE HELPING YOU.
(((((hugs))))))
BIZI