Dear Waves,

I was think perhaps of how when some poeple in sit coms on tv come down with a wicked cold, they bring out the ratty bathrobe and the huge fuzzy slippers. That is a visual to the other people in the house (and even the pets) that something is off.

Your talk about the pests and danger in the water cracked me up. I had not figured out what do do with the purple flag. Red is a powerful color but so is purple. I am going to find something purple . . . .

I'm concerned about her lack of bounderies. Feeling safe in boundaries and movign about in the adult world with clear bounderies is imporatnat. That stinks. Probably most of us had that in our homes, . . . . . we have to learn boundaries later.

If nothing else, your mdoc gives us some laughs. I hope he takes you seriously about this.

Mari