[BlueMajo]

Friends,

I was inspired by Mari's thread so I decided to open my own thread....

I know I havent post recently, but today Im having a very bad day.... the last 3 days have been really difficult for me.... I have been betrayed and abandoned my some "friends" that wrote me horrible things in facebook and etc...

I know I should not care, but I dont know, they made me feel really miserable.... Im bad. I mean, really bad.

Im out of my mind.

I came here because this is the only place on eath I can feel safe.

[Lara]

I replied in SOS...

just wanted to say to you and don't mind me if I'm blunt.

People who write horrible things about you or anyone in a place called facebook or anywhere else like that are not worth the time or emotional distress that they cause. They're bullies! Don't let them get to you. Keep calm about it but PLEASE don't keep going back there reading it over and over because you're so upset and shocked by them.

[BlueMajo]

Thank you Lara, I feel so shocked, indeed, you are so right.....

I know it is not worth it.... It just breaks me down the fact that I suddenly feel too much hate for doing nothing........

My God

[Mari]

Majo,

Lots of hugs.

Things really do get better.

Mari

[waves]

Hi Majo

I am sending you big hugs.

I am sorry for what has happened, especially as you felt these people were friends. I understand feeling upset, or even overly upset about something - even if in your mind you know it is not worth it.

You know it's ok to allow yourself to feel hurt. I'd say maybe try doing it in small stints. Fighting it can sometimes make one feel worse. So you let it in for a while, and then take a break, let it in a while, another break... etc.

For breaks, try to use distractions. Do anything you can think of that is pleasant to you, and nurturing... A walk in a nice place outside, or a bubblebath? An entertaining book, even dumb tv, lol. Do please keep yourself away from those posts - or even facebooke entirely, at all cost for a while, so you don't reread those things.

I am glad to see you even if I am sad for what is going on with you right now. I really hope you feel better soon.

love

waves

[BlueMajo]

Thank you my sisters....

I know I can count on you.... Like I said, only here I feel safe and loved.

Actually, I will tell you what I dreamed last night: I arrived to "Heaven", you know, the classic one, full of clouds and a golden gate... The person in the door was Donna and told me she was glad I was finally arriving.... Then, I saw all of you... I started crying because I was feeling so scared of people on Earth and Mari hold my hand and told me that you were always going to be there for me and to come in for the good I woke up feeling very peaceful and happy I think we will walways be together

Thank you for your words.... I really need this to be over ASAP.

[waves]

wow Majo,

what a sweet dream. I am glad you found peace in your dreams at least.

and yes we will always be here for you.

waves

[Brokenfriend]

Originally Posted by BlueMajo

Friends,

I was inspired by Mari's thread so I decided to open my own thread....

I know I havent post recently, but today Im having a very bad day.... the last 3 days have been really difficult for me.... I have been betrayed and abandoned my some "friends" that wrote me horrible things in facebook and etc...

I know I should not care, but I dont know, they made me feel really miserable.... Im bad. I mean, really bad.

Im out of my mind.

I came here because this is the only place on eath I can feel safe.

Hey Blue Facebook can be a unfriendly place. I think that I talked about it on Neurotalk several months ago. BF