[Nikko]

Happy Mother's Day to all. I hope you all have a nice day. Check in.....

I am a bit upset. Mike called and kept text messaging me last night. I took my phone off the hook, and the messaging finally stopped. I only spoke once on the phone to him.

He had been drinking, and blaming me for everything in the relationship.

It's like he held a bunch of crap inside and just let me have it last night, when he should of brought up what bothered him, at the point it did.

He wants to be friends, give me a break.......ugh grrrrr

I can't even talk about it anymore. So, glad it's over.

Hugs, Nikko

[fiberowendy2000]

Good for you Nikko! Keep it up he will get the hint sooner or later....hopefully sooner! Jean-Claude should be at your door shortly!

[Pamster]

Good for you to not take his displaced anger Nikko, you don't need it. You are a decent, kind and loving woman who deserves a man who's able to articulate his feelings better and one who isn't an alcoholic like Mike sounds like he is. You would be smart to not be 'friends' with him because he'll just take pot shots at you every now and then about your 'failed relationship' and you don't need it. At least that is what my experience has been like with ex's I tried to stay friends with.

Happy Mother's Day to everyone! I am pretty happy now that I got the call I was waiting for, we should be moving in there by June if all goes well. Life is looking up.

[befuddled2]

{{{{{Nanc}}}}}

Stay firm.

Pam, glad to hear the good news.

befuddled2

[Pamster]

I am really happy, now we just have to get ready to move.

[befuddled2]

I peeked in Doug's door today around 4 when I was handing the banannas to his roommate Carl when Carl got back in the wheel chair. Doug told me I could come in. We visited for 2 1/2 hours and had the best ole time. He's hurting bad though from kemo and cannot eat. He has a fever. When I left he was laying down on the sofa and his feet were near the door. I held one of his big toes and wiggled it and told him to take care now. That's when he said for me to come back anytime. I really do think he thinks I'm special. He even ignored 2 phone calls while I was there. He has a good sense of humor. He told me where to take my car where I wouldn't get screwed and they should give me a ride home and if not he'll follow me there and bring me back home. He's got 17 more chemo treatements before getting a break but if he can't eat they will put him in the hospital. He asked me what kind of car my husband has and when I told him he said if he sees my husband car at the apartments he'll call the cops.

I just wanted to shout to the mountain tops, I AM SO HAPPY.

befuddled2

[bizi]

Dear Nikko,
I am sorry that you are getting this crap from him.
Please take care of you....
How is your mom?
bee...glad that you are having good conversations with your friend!
This feeling stuff is hard work...I am so glad that you are getting it.
Have a great mothers day weekend to all ...I am not a mother but I am to my cats harriet and hobbes!
anyone else watch the "PG" version of sex and the city?
It is my favorite! 6 nights a week....
the girls always bring a smile to my face..
bizi

[DiMarie]

I am so glad BF. It was hurting for you that I just wanted to jump in my car, drive down and give you a hug!
What a nice turnaround, I bet you have sweet dreams tonight.

We are planning on going to a local amusment park with the kids and grandson tomorrow. My husband doesn't want to go, just because he doesn't.
I am upset as life is so precious, our 11 year old would love to be with her Daddy for the day, have a good time with him, make memories she will recall forever. His thing is we are going in August again...

I am saddend, with De's 30th Birthday this week, and she was a Mothers Day baby. I had to clean so much of her belongings for the clean up and he didn;t even help. He lifted the tow hitch and then I latched, he jumped back saying he hurt his hand, so he would not go up and empty the trailer with my older son, I had to go....

He did nothing to help me, said I had all week to get it done, why do I need help now.....to tell my son her younger brother to help me, (the son is totally broken up, really upset in there, and that makes me keep crying and heart ache).

I guess it is just better he doesn't go, if he is po'd he will sulk and be nasty all day....what is wrong with men...why is it all about them?
I want to make good memories whenever I can anymore.......

On an upbeat note, or maybe not I am car shopping. Limited budget, but so far it is an Older Odyesee Van 2000 62,000 miles loaded and great seat comfort, emaculate one owner (this guy is Monks' brother, lol) OR a 2004 or a 2006 Chevy Malibu with 31,000 miles.

I have a Camery 99' fully loaded with 95,000 miles on it. I will give that to the husband and drive the newer one.....

He vetoed the 2002 RAV-4 I had him drive today, he just HATED it.....super clean but 60,000 miles. All wheel drive for the mountain snow.

SO I am leaning toward the van for super room, towing and comfort seats, or if I can negotiate price the Malibu......

YIKES, enough, everyone enjoy the weekend, Mothers Day for those that are Mom's and "happy memories only" of times spent with Mom for those that are daughters.

I love you all,
Di

[befuddled2]

Thanks Bizi and Di,

Bizi I hope you have a nice weekend also.

Di, I am sorry to hear about your husband acting like that. I hope to go to the nursing home to visit my lady friend for Mother's day and take her some candy. She may not even get any visitors since her sons live about 12 hours away.

befuddled2

[Mrs. Bear]

So much to write. Wow.

How about I love you all so much and I want you all to know I am thinking about you. Whether you are hurting or are sharing your joy, I am right there with you.

I am just doing life a step at a time right now. Nothing exciting, and nothing traumatic.

Really love you all.

HUGS