Dear Pamster,
things will work out for you.
This place will be different and all you can do is just be careful and don't try to do too much or hurt yourself, perhaps you could enlist someone to just be there to help watch him....This place is going to be grand...
I wish for you some peace of mind.
((((HUGS))))
bizi

Thanks bizi, (((hugs))) I needed a good hug. I am going to have my mom there during the moving process but it's after we're there and trying to establish a new routine that I am worried aboutl. Hopefully it will be better then I am hoping for, but we'll see. For now I am just trying to get to bed and to sleep without obsessing too much over the things out of my reach so far. Mom likes to say Tomorrow Takes Care of Itself. But that's only if WE take care of things today IMO.

Hi, Pam,
We are here for you.


It will be better than you hope, but if it is your style to worry about the worst, then go for it. Do it your way.
All I'm saying is that in the end, you will be deliriously happy with the new house. It will be everything you want it to be.

M.

Thank you Mari, I know you're right on all counts. I am a worrier but in this case I feel badly because I won't be able to help move stuff. Hopefully it will all go well, but we've just got two people helping us, my mom and dh's dad. It will be so awesome once we're there, Jackie will have a park to play on and we'll be taking him there almost daily.

You're right when you said we were sent this home by our guardian angel, I had given up on this place when I called another apartment complex to see if they had any openings and was told they didn't BUT that this other place we're approved for now did and to call there to reactivate our previous application. It was so difficult getting them all the paperwork they required but it's worth it in the end I think.

Thank you for your kind words, I feel better this morning. I know I will worry about things until we're in there sleeping there and living there, but hopefully it will not be nearly as bad as how I worried about whether we'd get approved or rejected based on our application. THAT was the most stress I have had since Jackie faced surgery on his tonsils and adenoids.

hang in there Pamster,
you can do this... you can do this....
(((HUGS)))
bizi

Thank you bizi, deep down I know I can too, but that floating anxiety I have just won't take a hike. I think it will work out all right it's just that I wish I could be more help then just packing stuff. Times like these I really hate my physical limitations. But I have to learn to accept myself as I am, my dh and my family have, so I should too.

It will all work out. Moving is stressful to begin with, and then the anxiety of everything you have to do to move.

Try and just take it a day at a time, it will all happen, and before you know it you will be all settled in.

Hang in there........Hugs, Nikko