After the last litigation I have put off this last piece to wrap up far too long, but I needed to get stronger.

January 29th 9:00 AM hearing.
Wrapping up the end of the year I filed for the court cost the ex still owes me in litigating for suing me in De's estate monies which was heard and I won by the arbitrator. We were to split the cost by both of us. I would foot the initial payment from my settlement until the decision came down. If we both won, it came out of cost.

If he lost he owed his half of what I paid up front back to me. He still has made no attempt to pay me back several thousand.

Today the court told me he is bringing an attorney and defending it as not owing.
SCUM!
I was way too emotional to do this before, I needed to heal as much as I could. But before statute runs out now I have to face him.

At least their credibility can be impeached by admitting they lied during depositions. They lie when it is convenient for them.

The clincher, he is his fathers estate executor and kept my kids out of the Vioxx settlement even though they were in the probated Will. He is a criminal!

I need the strength to wrap this up, I fear their sick accusations every time we go to court.

De will be gone 8 years that week, it will be such a heavy burden. I can use all the love, hugs, support and prayers to be spared to get through this one more time.

Di

Has it really been 8 years? I remember when that happened. I think you were with us then or maybe I am just remembering you telling us her story. I am so sorry that you are still having to go to court over monies. I don't quite understand it all but I don't need to. you have my hugs and love
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

Sending you some thoughts Dimarie.

We are here for you.

I too remember it like it was yesterday.

Donna

Thinking of you Di.

(((hugs))) for you Di, and sending good thoughts.

waves

Hi, Di,

I hope for a favorable result.

Keep doing things to take care of yourself.

Mari

sending prayers
bobby

Thank you all, it's getting more emotional, the anniversary day and the hearing. Now the attorney is telling me it isn't the signed agreement he was looking for, I'm not sure which he wants, maybe the suit settlement.

Yes Bizi, I was coming in with my anxiety panic disorder and often about meds or facilities for De. Then the horrific loss, piled with the law suit the ex wanted nothing to do with until I received it.

It cost so much in emotions and cost to litigate that for twice as long as the original suit.
I swear it just takes years off me dealing with that scum bag. Over thirty years of his continual mental abuse after the physical abuse.

The attorney may be asking for a continuance. I hope not I need this over!
I hope I can talk to home by Tuesday.

Take care of yourself during this process.

Lots of hugs.

M

Hang in there, Di.