oh kay, It sounds like minimal damage sweetie. Like you said it might just take a buffing out. I had that done to my whole car one year because of small superficial scratches, cost $100. about 2 years ago, backing up I hit my friends car and put a bunch of my red paint on his car. when it was said and done his car was fine the guy hand buffed it out and no permant damage to his car, it scraped paint off of my bumper but he touched it up with paint it took a total of 10 minutes and he charged me $40.
Please don't feel badly it was an act of nature, not your fault.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

a feebly i am sorry. maybe it won't go that bad.
bobby

Thank you Bizi :hug: I hope it's not a costly repair. I hope this lady doesn't try to screw me over because I don't want to go through insurance. I hope she agrees to let us pay her directly!!!

We got 5" of snow yesterday so there's no way my note survived. I decided it was a good idea to call the apartment leasing office yesterday and have them contact the vehicle's owner for me. I hope they followed through. She may not have noticed the damage right away on her own, and my husband thinks the snow may have washed away the white spot, but I doubt it. I didn't get a call yesterday. I figured I'd get a call right away. I want to get it over with… not that I'm looking forward to it. 1mg klonopin… considering another 1/2.

My husband cleaned most of the snow off the car before he left for work this morning, but I'll have to move it for the plow when it comes. I don't like the idea of doing it in case the subject of me not having a license somehow comes up because of my accident with the car door. The saw a woman clean off and move the car I hit earlier this morning.

Drunk.org completed my file. That ordeal is finally over with!!! :)
I'm going to call the NH DMV and ask them to send me the letter I need to take to the MA DMV so I can get insurance. I may sit on it and wait to request my driving record (which is time sensitive) until I know how much my little accident cost me.

I made 3 candles yesterday. Making them was just what I needed to do to relax. I did more research this time before making them. I can't be entirely sure until I actually burn one, but I'm pretty certain this is my best batch yet!!! I didn't face any challenges. The new wax really is a one pour wax. They cooled perfectly without having to top them off. They're a pretty shade of pink this time and they hold so much fragrance they smell heavily of sandalwood without being burned just like a Yankee Candle. They were fun to make, and when they come out so well it's very rewarding :):):)

No club for me today because I had to be here to move the car so it won't be towed. I will be shooting for tomorrow I guess unless something else comes up.

so happy about your candles being perfect!

bizi

Glad to hear that you are enjoying the candles.
Making handcrafts has important rewards.

M

I still haven't heard from the owner of that car and it has me concerned that the leasing office never notified her and I don't know if I should make another attempt to contact her. My husband said I should just drop it even though he thinks there's a possibility the office never called her.
He doesn't want to hear anything about it. He has no understanding or patience for my anxiety disorder. I'm so worried about this and fixated on it. I was handling my anxiety so well…
She parked her car next to ours again, so it will be easier to to try to get a look at it at to see if the damage is still there. I will give it a couple more days, but if the damage is still there, I will have to leave another note because my conscience won't allow me to drop the issue no matter what my husband says.


I've decided the damage will not break the bank (thank you Bizi) and no matter how concerned I am about the above issue, I'm not going to let it interfere with my quest to get my license back. Yesterday I requested the stuff I need. I will be ready to go to the MA DMV and get the auto insurance out of the way as soon as I receive my driving record in the mail.
Last night there was a spat over how I'm going to get to the MA DMV because the cab fare to the nearest branch with a hearings office is $50 one way. I don't want to get into it, but my husband can be an inflexible pain in the ***. I will be happy when I'm less dependent on him and can spread my wings a little.

I'm going to the club today. It will be good to get out. I'm skipping the morning meeting. I've been to one already and I'm certain I'm not missing out on anything. Buddy has been snuggled on my lap purring his little fanny off for over half and hour and that's not exactly helping to motivate me to get in the shower… very relaxing.

I grew some stones and went outside to check out her car. The spot is gone unless it's covered by salt, but that doesn't appear to be the case. I wonder if the mark was made by salt from my car? Apparently my husband was right and the snow did the job. Cheapest car accident I've ever heard of. From what I can tell, case closed. :):):)

oh kay so happy to hear this! Glad that you are going tothe club. I wish there was that sort of club in my city.
bizi

That's a relief about the car!

M

There are similar clubs all over the world. I can ask the director, Elaine, if there is one in Lafayette. I will also ask her where they are in NY in case Bobby is interested.

I had a lovely day yesterday with a lady my age named Stephanie. She's disabled for physical and psych reasons, but is high functioning when stable like me. There was no lack of conversation because we're both very chatty, and she also smokes. We did the lunch tickets together.

I had lunch there for the first time yesterday. I got a salad and a cup of potato kale and chorizo soup for $2.25. It was excellent!

Elaine somehow convinced me to stay for the club meeting after lunch. There were about 15 people there. The initial business was very interesting. Elaine discussed relationships with two different organizations that lobby for clubs like ours to get funding and resources. That was followed with seemingly innocuous fluff. Stephanie was outspoken no matter what the subject was, and all her comments elicited responses from a woman named Rose. Things got out of hand and more people got into the fray… the situation being difficult because everyone in the room, aside from staff, was mentally ill, including me.
I barely know these people and didn't know what they were fighting about so I just felt bad for all the people who were upset. I honestly couldn't tell why some people were upset and I'm not sure they knew either. But I don't deal with conflict well and had to leave the room pretty quickly before I had an anxiety attack. I'm really surprised I was the only one. They took a break a couple of minutes later and everyone was fine except Stephanie who was very upset and left before I could talk to her one on one. I feel bad about that.

I'm going to see my PCP today about my GI issues. I don't think there's anything else he can do to help me. I really hate the thought of adding another doctor, but I think I'm at the point now that I really need to see a gastroenterologist. I can't go on like this.