Bobby. I'm so sorry for all of the problems that you are going through. It seems like to many bad things happen at once sometimes. Hang in there.

All that we hear on tv is bad, and that can cause low morale, and fatigue on top of the other bad things. The Psalm may help. That's what I read. I don't know why we go through so much hardship.

I've been more tired recently then usual myself. It's probably a combination of things, and the end of the Summer season. BF:hug::hug::hug:

thank you.that is what i will do. have to find them. just played`1/2 hour with abbie. tira,isu is sleepimg. I thnk Abbie grawled at her before. My stomach is better soI don;t have to deal with that. my typing is worse. I am grieving over Mike. I am so sure he is going to die. Hee is all hooked up in the hospital in a coma with his eyes shut. Wemspoke on the phone practically ever night. at 89 he was so sharp.
bobby hoping youwithh feel better

I'm so sorry about Mike :hug::hug::hug:

It's not unusual for there to be some growling, hissing, etc when a new cat is introduced into a household, especially with total immersion. It takes time before they all adjust to one another, and start to take their places in the household, and it's only been a couple of days. Why would you consider giving up Tiramisu? How has she been behaving?

I hope that the Feliway helps calm all the cats down when it arrives.

she starts it

One of my cats that I use to have hissed when I tried to bring a very cute, and cuddly cat home that was given to me at church. Cats can be very territorial. BF:hug::hug::hug:

why would you give up tiramiso? I am confused.
bizi

Bobby, I'm guessing there is fighting going on, but you didn't write anything about it directly.

If Tiramisu is starting the fights, I'm guessing it's because she's younger, and a newer cat to the home and more insecure about her position.

Adding a third cat is harder than adding a second. I know that the confrontations are upsetting, but things will settle down with time.

you are trght...... tiday she started biting me soi I returned her. They already found a loving home from the former adoptive parent.

I hope you feel more settled.
I would think that the two remaining cats are settled now too.



M

If I understand you, Tiramisu bit you, so you had to re-home her?
If so, that makes sense. The adjustment may have been just too much for her. She may be happier in her new home, and it may be the best thing for you and the other two cats.

I'm sorry Bobby :hug::hug::hug: