I don't remember but he was shocked that I brought it up because he remembers going into the street and waiting til a car ran him over. I was trying to put out howhishis grandfather and grandmother weren't always comforting to him. myra was a real bi#$xh. because they came late to a party the night before after coming from conn to penn she made them stay inn the car the next morning when they were early and they were in their late sixties or early seventies. He had implied in anther email before I wasn't telling him the truth about how awful they treated me and what I had to endure. I was tired of always being the family scapegoat. for a few years alex lived ten blocks or less away from me in nyc with his family and I never knew it. when I found out boy did that hurt. I am also in the process of telling off another friend who knows it all. I did have the most wonderful conversation with my best friend in israel today for an hour. she has breast cancer and I was of comfort thank God.
This time he didn't send me a picture of the family get together for thanksgiving. maybe he finally had a clue. I don;t know now if I will see him in jan for a little while but it really isn't worth the pain. of course I didn't hear from my other two sm#cks of nephews. I think it is all too damaged.
I hate holidays because they bring up so much pain